Could you forgive and get past infidelity?

[Leon]

Could you get past infidelity?.....How would you deal with it if a failure of the relationship left you in dire straits financially.

Answer seriously please. A couple I know are facing this right now. Neither could survive a divorce yet one (I think both) of them was unfaithful.

I'll add that I believe money is not a reason to stay together, but for either of them an added rent and utility bill will exceed their income.

[beatlebutt81]

Cheating is never an easy thing to forgive, but with counseling and alot of hard work, it's possible for couples to resolve infidelity. However, I don't think I'd ever really be strong enough to put in that much work to fix a marriage after cheating, and I don't know many people who are willing to put in the work either. Also, money definately isn't a reason to stay together. Money problems is one thing that can quickly ruin a relationship.