Originally Posted by
Oki_Man5
Thanks to my wife's perfect organization in taking care of our bills, and maybe even our (both of us) desires to stay current on our bills (Need to knock on wood here; ty Daisy for lending your forehead LOL), we have not experienced the "behind on bills thingy." Gosh, I hope we never do especially as I/we are heading into retirement.
In my line of work, I see a lot of people who are consistently late on their bills---rent late every danged month; electric getting cut off regularly; most out here do not have ONG, but I have ONG due to being nearby to a feeder line that was tapped a long time ago, and when wife and I took hammers into hand and spent over a year of our spare/leisure time banging some boards together that were paid for paycheck to paycheck, we have not had a mortgage payment over the past 30 or so years.
I believe our electricity (OGE) nor our gas (ONG) has ever been turned off---never even been late that I recall. I am proud of that record, but it is not the reason for this post.
People need to prioritize---to me the house payment/rent, utilities, food, clothing, medicine (whatever else is a truly needed) should hold the highest place on the priorities list. Then can come the movie tickets, zoo tickets, INTERNET ACCESS (Yeah! I capitalized that) and things like that.
Only when the top priorities are funded should the other items be considered, but too many people do not feel that way, and they fund the wanted items while allowing the needed items to go unpaid.
Hey, there have been times when (while I was younger I might add) I worked as many as two part-time jobs while still holding down my real job, and I do not really think it affected our family life. For the first 10 or so years of our married life, wife did not work outside the home, and at about the 10-year mark, she started to college being funded entirely by my paychecks from the several jobs that I would be working, and we still seemed to have plenty of together time.
On a side note, I have had some of the younger generation tell me that he or she was not going to work for a wage that was not worthy of the talents while his or her rent was going unpaid or the utilities were being shut off. I had no sympathy; I worked for what might be called today "minimum wage" to keep a lifestyle my family enjoyed, so why should I have sympathy for one who does not?
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