Betrayed?

[Tracy]

But you said, "I have never cheated on anyone I have had feelings for.".

So I guess I'm confused... that sounds as if you HAVE cheated on people that you did NOT have feelings for... but if that's not what you meant, then I apologize.

[Curt]

But you said, "I have never cheated on anyone I have had feelings for.".

So I guess I'm confused... that sounds as if you HAVE cheated on people that you did NOT have feelings for... but if that's not what you meant, then I apologize.

I have never slept with anyone I did not have feelings for nor would I ever cheat on anyone I had feelings for and I will never be with anyone I dont have feelings for so therefore I will never nor have I ever cheated in my life on anyone and I never will.....but like I said every woman I have had feelings for in my life has cheated on me...ok let me put it this way I will never cheat nor have I ever cheated...I dont know how to make it any more clear than that.

[Curt]

Interesting quote here...."I have never cheated on anyone I have had feelings for....I have one question...the ones you cheated on deserved that because you did not have feelings for them? Sorry that mentality is why people are getting hurt everyday. Everyone has feelings.

You assumed I have cheated...that is your first mistake right there..get off the cell phone and read what I wrote again

[StephiOKC]

It has been proven that more women now cheat then men...I have never cheated on anyone I have had feelings for and never will...but have been cheated on myself...so I understand Leon when you say something like it may take you awhile before you have the trust to get back into it again...the more it happens to you the harder it is to let your feelings show for anyone...if I ever find someone who is willing to love me and be with me the last thing I am going to do is take a chance to screw that up

Curt you need to read your own words. You said that more women cheat, yes PEOPLE cheat. And remember it takes 2 to cheat! If you are having all your relationships end with infidelity then you really need to look at what kind of women you are dating or getting involved with.

[redredwine]

Well you read that all wrong I am happy to say...unlike most women I know I have never slept with or done anything with a woman I have not had feelings for...every woman I have been with cheated on me as most women do..

Wow!

[Curt]

Curt you need to read your own words. You said that more women cheat, yes PEOPLE cheat. And remember it takes 2 to cheat! If you are having all your relationships end with infidelity then you really need to look at what kind of women you are dating or getting involved with.

Man do I have to keep clarifying myself...more married women cheat than married men...it used to be the other way around...yes but an article I read where they interviewd women most of them said that yes they do or did cheat the reasons being many...boredom..unsatisfied at home...going out after work and getting drunk with male co workers...the list went on but most of the women agreed that yes the tables have turned from a few years ago...basically what they were saying is they cheat because they can....cell phones and the internet have only made it easier to hide afairs so I do beleive it is at an epidemic stage thesedays and it is sad....

[bandnerd]

And we know that all surveys are completely 100% accurate.

~~from a woman who has never cheated, or even thought about it.

[redredwine]

And we know that all surveys are completely 100% accurate.

~~from a woman who has never cheated, or even thought about it.

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! about the survey thing!

[StephiOKC]

I am with you Bandnerd....I am also a classy woman....sorry never cheated and would not think of it...I have respect for myself and others.

Love the quote you have redredwine!!

[redredwine]

I am with you Bandnerd....I am also a classy woman....sorry never cheated and would not think of it...I have respect for myself and others.

Love the quote you have redredwine!!

Thanks Steph, I copied it off of an email I got from a friend.......

[bandnerd]

Every married woman I know has never cheated...no one in my family (to my knowledge) none of my married friends, not my sister, not my mother.

I have known, however, plenty of men who have cheated on their girlfriends/wives. Plenty.

It's a completely blanket statement to say "all men will cheat" or "all women will cheat." You're painting yourself into a corner. Not all of anyone will ever do the same thing.

Sure, it may be easier today to cheat without consequence, but it doesn't mean that all people are going to take advantage of that. It would be very easy for either my husband or myself to cheat on this relationship, given our schedules...but we don't, because we don't take our marriage lightly. We trust each other. There's no feeling like it in the world.

[Easy180]

I'm much too lazy to cheat...Too much work to cover up just for 5 minutes of...I mean a couple hours of fun

[Leon]

Every married woman I know has never cheated...no one in my family (to my knowledge) none of my married friends, not my sister, not my mother.

I have known, however, plenty of men who have cheated on their girlfriends/wives. Plenty.

Well, I'll go out on a limb here and say most heterosexual encounters involve one man and one woman.

Knowing that, can we assume that an equal number of men and women have sex...I think that's a safe assumption.

If more married men cheat than married women, doesn't that imply that there are more single women sleeping with married men. Or are cheating women are doing so multiple times? Do tell. It takes one from each gender; the numbers must average equal.

The BBC conducted a huge sex survey a year or so ago, over 400,000 people. Many of the participants participated in face-to-face interviews. Afterwards they were given a second interview, same questions, but this time hooked up to a lie detector.

The survey concluded that men typically inflate the number of women they've slept with and women deflate their numbers. But the average number of partners is essentially equal between men and women. It also found that an equal number of married men and women cheat; women are less likely to admit it to anyone under any circumstance.

BBC - Science & Nature - Human Body and Mind - Sex Survey

[redredwine]

I have known both to cheat, I think it depends on the home circumstances. Some both men and women are taken for granted, treated like crap, talked down to etc. I think even some of those would NOT cheat, but some will, maybe because they need to, who knows. I think both sexes cheat, you can not just say WOMEN because you have been burned by a woman, maybe those women did to you, but not JUST women cheat!!

[Tracy]

I personally have never cheated, and never would. I have no tolerance for it.

[Curt]

I have known both to cheat, I think it depends on the home circumstances. Some both men and women are taken for granted, treated like crap, talked down to etc. I think even some of those would NOT cheat, but some will, maybe because they need to, who knows. I think both sexes cheat, you can not just say WOMEN because you have been burned by a woman, maybe those women did to you, but not JUST women cheat!!

So that makes it right? because you are treated like crap? if people are going to sleep around wouldnt it be best to get a divorce first? and why would anyone put up with a realationship if they are being treated like crap..most cheaters use that as an excuse to make themselves feel less guilty about cheating or feel no guilt at all

[soonerock]

But you said, "I have never cheated on anyone I have had feelings for.".

So I guess I'm confused... that sounds as if you HAVE cheated on people that you did NOT have feelings for... but if that's not what you meant, then I apologize.

Well she must have not had feeling for me. I gave her an egagement to be engaged ring and she ... well, no need for details. I am still devestated. I'm not perfect but I was dedicated for life for this woman. Plus, the children. Too much hurt. Not a victim, just, stupid for falling in Love.

[PennyQuilts]

I don't think everyone cheats. I DO think that some cheat and I also think that if they think they can get away with it, they are more likely to cheat. I take one look at my guy and the thought of losing him - or his trust and respect - makes all thought of cheating evaporate. He'd not put up with it. I know other guys who are absolute doormats. They fuss and cry and carry on but in the end, they take the cheater back. She cheats again, he fusses again but the end result is the same.

[soonerock]

Things are great now. I am seeing a woman that is a Christian...thanks.

[bvilleokie]

Back up! Men cheat too! We have all been betrayed at some point unless we are VERY lucky. Some of us more often than others.

[Leon]

Can't worry about the cheating....only deal with it if and when it ever happens.

[soonerock]

{{{{ looking for love in all the wrong places...}}}} LoL (see original song)

[Oh GAWD the Smell!]

{{{{ looking for love in all the wrong places...}}}} LoL (see original song)

Johnny Lee...Nice.

Up until a few months ago, my sister was dating his drummer. Yes, he still plays and he sounds great during his shows. He's also quite the lech.

{{{{{{{{{{Cherokee Fiddlllllleee}}}}}}}}}}}

[oneforone]

{{{{ looking for love in all the wrong places...}}}} LoL (see original song)

I heard that is the same reason why cowboys have doody in their moustaches.