Re: Violent Video Games -- Do They Harm Our Youth?
This has been a concern of mine since I had children. I was incredibly diligent with my first son, he went to a small sheltered Christian pre-school and then to a small Christian private school for years. We sheltered him very much until about age 10 or so and then slowly started letting him watch things that we hadn't before and playing games that we hadn't allowed before.
We transitioned with no problems and so far, he's still the mellow, easy going kid he always was.
One thing to keep in mind is the spacing of your children. Mine are five years apart so it's really hard not to let the youngest one do things the older one does. He was raised a little differently, public schools etc, etc.. saw and played games I never would have let my first. Still, he's a great kid too, smart, easy going, mellow... I got really incredibly lucky with these boys.. knock on wood, they are such good kids.
Some of my friends didn't let their kids watch anything, no video games, controlled every aspect, constant church.... so very sad to me that once these kids got one iota of freedom, they revolted, rebelled, and went crazy.. pot smoking, swearing, getting horrible grades.. on and on. I honestly cannot even believe how far they have turned from how they were raised.
So, long story short, everything in moderation.. don't make things so unattainable that it is all the kids want to have (since they can't)... don't forbid everything, don't over control.. pick your battles, etc etc. Teach them right from wrong through example ... they'll take that over what they see on a video game.
And yeah, we have Grand Theft Auto IV.
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