Quote Originally Posted by TomGirl
yeh, dirtrider, I like it here too. One other thing....being up front with someone doing do crap. Like your going to be in a heart-to-heart with someone and tell them that you have trust issues and they are going to immediately save you by saying something like "well, you don't want to hang with me then...cause I'll stab ya in the back in your sleep!"

All it's going to do is make someone feel like they've taken on a mental case and until they get to know you, that's exactly what you will appear to be. Not fair? Of course not, but heck....I know I have a million other things to worry about without having to worry if my friend misunderstood something I said because he/she is looking for something wrong with me.
I understood some this except for the "being up front with someone doing do crap." But given your opion for something like this, how would you want to know? Would it rather be up front and honest? Or being untrusting and you wondering if they are being honest? Me I would want someone to be upfront and truthful si would know what to do to either 1) make it better for both partys or 2) lookout bad road ahead. Since I have been in the bad road and seen the distrust, I have been truthful in everything I have done and said, part of being the way I was raise, if caught lying, about anything it was butt beating and grounding so I learned real fast be trustworthy and never lie.