Who's Fault?

**Karried** · 05-10-2007, 08:14 PM

I just stand by the fact that compromising the vows needs to not be taken so lightly in the name of his lack of contentment in the marriage

I can agree with some of that....we all get older and no one likes to think that we can be 'traded' in for a younger model... but let's face it, the fact is that a lot of spouses let themselves go.. they stop working on themselves! They think.. I have my mate.. I'm done.

Well, I don't think it's fair to the person who married one person to have this person change into something else over time.

If we're talking about depression or mental illness or a disfiguring accident .. okay.. I can see that the vows for better or worse really need to be considered.

But we're talking about a person giving up, stop trying on their relationship and themselves because they become complacent and lazy.

Keith · 05-10-2007, 08:37 PM

Originally Posted by BailJumper

I'm guessing its mostly the hypocritical Bible thumping crowd that would publicly scorn someone for getting a divorce (while privately engaging in affairs, pornography and molesting alter boys).

Don't hold back...tell us how you really feel.....