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    Here's a question: Young, healthy, unmarried woman of average intelligence who does not abuse drugs or alcohol from a middle class family finishes high school but rather than go to college, takes a low wage job and has three children before she is 24 with 2-3 different dads she has no plan to marry. Her siblings stayed in school, married before having babies, and are all doing well.

    Did she choose to be poor or did she just make bad choices? And does it matter? How do you compare her situation with a new immigrant or someone who is disabled or has a drug/alcohol problem?

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    And let me throw in there my own experience - finished high school, married at sixteen and had my third child at age 22. I sure felt poor and it was hard - even with a spouse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PennyQuilts View Post
    Thank you for the good comment statement but I didn't see anyone demonizing the poor, either and you seem to be going off on something not part of this conversation. If you are saying none choose to be poor, that's simply the flip side of demonization and it is also untrue. Some do choose that path and they have that right. Pretending it doesn't happen because YOU find it too shameful to acknowledge is your prerogative but I wish you wouldn't try to control others' speech or ask them to also ignore reality.

    Demanding that this truth be not spoken is one of the reasons hard topics are increasingly difficult to address. It reminds me of the days when rape and incest were dirty little secrets that people couldn't talk about. There are many reasons people are poor including choice. The mere mention of that is not demonization and I hope you weren't trying to equate the two. There is a fundamental difference in terms of addressing the issue between someone poor by choice vs a multitude of other paths. If we can't look at this issue with open eyes due to some ideological filter, we might as well give up. Please don't try to claim an honest discussion amounts to demonization simply because you are projecting your own intolerance on others. If you can't tolerate including choice among the many reasons people may be poor, all you will do is shut down a constructive conversation. We don't need to be preached to, thank you very much. That attitude is one of the primary reasons we can't get it together, policy wise, to help people in need. We were having a pretty good conversation until you brought your bias into it and got preachy.
    There was a very specific post on this thread that said people choose to be poor. I didn't want to get into a flame war. And you are right, there are some people who make very poor life decisions that lead them to being poor. I was just hoping people could discuss specific ideas AT THE MUNICIPAL LEVEL that have worked in other cities.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PennyQuilts View Post
    Treating generational poverty is different than treating families who simply fall on hard times, typically from a job loss or illness. Transitional poverty (for instance, new immigrants or a student) is a different type of poverty.

    Often, people who teach about poverty seem to primarily use a densely urban model that focuses on high population centers with large groups trapped in generational poverty and high numbers of new immigrants who struggle with language and cultural issues in their transition. These groups often deal with high crime, often violent, and bad schools. It some ways, it makes sense to use a densely urban model because that is where most poverty is located that call for professional assistance. In urban centers, the answer is to typically provide public services including after and before school care, housing assistance, etc.

    You see the most economic inequality in large urban centers because it attracts highly educated professionals (because that is where the good jobs are) as well as the lowest incomes because social services are provided and attract the poor.

    Alternatively, they teach rural poverty such as you see in Appalachia where you see generational poverty resulting from living in areas where the infrastructure is poor, education is difficult to come by/not valued and there is a certain level of isolation from other areas. That's a whole different world than the urban jungle, notwithstanding they share some of the same problems.

    IMO, these traditional poverty studies are well and good for the populations they address but seems to me, they often skew a mindset to "see" what they expect to see based on their education. And you can get the same sort of education back east and at OU. Someone from NYC might be justifiably upset about income inequality because they see it everyday. That their solution to the problem only increases the likelihood of it expanding is one of those loops that is hard to get out of. Maybe impossible, short of a collapse or near collapse. The day NYC isn't filled with very rich and very poor won't be when there are no longer any very poor or they are subsidized into the lower middle class - it will be when the very rich relocate. It is already extremely difficult for middle class families to make a living there.

    Moreover, unlike many places in flyover country, there has been a move away from charitable support in favor of government subsidies - and that has trickled down to the population. Accordingly, someone who studies urban poverty often builds a mindset that private giving, much less faith based giving, is too unreliable to be worthwhile. And yet, in a different community/culture, that sort of thing is commonplace, targeted and the individuals involved are dedicated. This is an area where you see a lot of private support in medical assistance, for example. Someone who studies poverty too often, IMO, thinks the whole country is like Queens. It isn't.

    It is difficult to get too upset about income inequality in much of the midwest because we're in a different situation than big urban areas or Appalachia. We make far less money but housing and expenses are much cheaper and a look at a bell curve would give us a big fat middle compared to a lot of bigger cities. That isn't to say that poverty doesn't exist, but when the brilliant egg heads insist (or at least imply) that we are all living in shacks and going hungry due to horrible poverty based on our income levels without taking into account that this isn't NYC, LA or the south side of Chicago, you have to wonder what planet they are living on. We have our own types of poverty issues but people poor in OKC aren't necessarily poor for the same reasons they are poor in a big city - and accordingly, the solutions aren't necessarily the same.

    Here's a for instance. It is one thing to not have a job because there are no jobs. It is another thing to not have a job even though there are jobs to be had. At that point, you have to ask the question of why this individual isn't working - is it because of lack of training or education? Disability? Drug abuse? A criminal record? Government subsidies make working a waste of effort? Laziness? Independent wealth? Rearing children or caring for sick/elderly relatives? A student? They can't speak English? Depending on the demographics, you are liable to get more or less of the above categories. Our government, unfortunately, has a one sized fits all mentality with a citizenry that wants to help and worries that targeting assistance will end up having it be too narrow to cover all the needs. Sometimes, a policy causes more ultimate harm than good but I don't expect to see any real constructive reforms until we run out of money.

    As someone who spent much of her career trying to find public and private funds to assist families with special needs, it is frustrating to see huge sums of money going to people it isn't really helping while families that really need the help go without. People tend to think there is plenty of assistance available without realizing that most of it is put into little funding pies depending on the community. Once a given pie is exhausted, too bad, so sad. Come ask us next year. We spend so much money on deadbeats that waste it and every dime of that could be going to help a child that is really needy. I guess what I am really saying is that if you want money to support a poor family, ask the government. They'll give you housing, food stamps, blah, blah. Chances are, they aren't going to get off the public dole anytime soon. Even families with skills and education typically wait until the funding runs out.

    Alternatively, if you have a family with special needs - a kid out of control, drug abuse or mental illness, a child who needs counseling following abuse, etc., funding is sometimes available but you have to prove it is needed and there is great competition for these resources. Once it is gone for the fiscal year, look for other funding sources and good luck. Thank god for private giving.
    Thank you for taking the time to write all this down. I think there is a lot of good information here and I plan to read this again soon. I agree so much with your very last statement: "Thanks God for private giving." It continues to help so many people in desperate situations. There are thousands of examples of this across OKC that we can all point to. Two of my favorites are Catholic Charities and Bethany First Church of the Nazarene.

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    Quote Originally Posted by soonerguru View Post
    I think this is a great discussion, and I hope to keep it as devoid of politics as possible. Let's also avoid demonizing poor people -- it is ridiculous to say people "choose" to be poor. This is something someone says to themselves to feel better about having greater fortune.

    Those of us who are successful, and educated, and have careers that are fulfilling and challenging, should feel blessed. Yes, we work hard for our success, but we are also lucky to be in the position we are, and probably benefited from many people helping us along the way.

    There's no way to address the problem of poverty by casting blame on the poor.

    Let's move this toward discussion of ideas that can actually positively impact this problem.

    Great comments from Penny, by the way, about employment. No one should ever look down at anyone for what they do to contribute to society. What is forgotten -- or unknown -- is that most poor people have jobs. The population of working poor in this country is enormous. It is extremely unhelpful and inaccurate to characterize the poor as welfare recipients.
    Yes, if we can keep this conversation from devolving that would be great. I agree with your comment about the state. Ugh. Cities can and do act as incubators for the social and cultural innovations that shape our world. That's one reason I think a discussion of the working poor in OKC is appropriate. Local governing bodies across the metro can serve as beacons of great processes for the entire state. Well, maybe...hope springs eternal.

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    I would count myself among the working poor for quite a long time - living paycheck to paycheck with the kids getting older and more expensive by the day. Frightening. When my youngest was a year old I went back to school, eventually got my degree and after working a few years, went back to law school. It is SO MUCH EASIER to have money and the working poor have a special place in my heart.

    There are so many roads to poverty - bad decisions (my hand just went up), illness, etc. Helping someone who is mentally ill and poor as a result is one thing. Just keeping them on an even keel with their bills paid may be the best you can hope for and so much depends on the extent of their illness and social network. A new immigrant with poor language skills who can't get a decent job is another situation and, candidly, it may be that their children are going to be the ones to be upwardly mobile since they won't be as hampered by language barriers and/or will have better opportunities to network with the children of the middle class. Encouraging someone who made poor decisions but has the ability to be socially mobile is a whole different problem and every situation is different. Some people are just stupid, some just have awful judgment. Some are just young and that is a time honored detour that doesn't have to ruin a life. I couldn't cite you the studies but from what I recall, although there is increasing income inequality, the stats suggest that it isn't static and that there is quite a bit of upward and downward income mobility with individuals.

    We had a thread awhile back where we discussed the phenomenon of how the widespread education of women and increased employment opportunities have contributed to less upward mobility. So the theory goes, not long ago women tended to have less education and married "up." By virtue of their marriages, their children ended up in a higher income class and their extended family also tended to benefit. These days, women going to college tend to marry men in college. Women in the work place are not as likely to marry the boss as in the old days, rather, they marry peers. The end result is that poor women are less likely to marry up and more affluent women are marrying in their own income class. The end result is less social mobility and people aren't really interacting with people not like themselves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PennyQuilts View Post
    I would count myself among the working poor for quite a long time - living paycheck to paycheck with the kids getting older and more expensive by the day. Frightening. When my youngest was a year old I went back to school, eventually got my degree and after working a few years, went back to law school. It is SO MUCH EASIER to have money and the working poor have a special place in my heart.

    There are so many roads to poverty - bad decisions (my hand just went up), illness, etc. Helping someone who is mentally ill and poor as a result is one thing. Just keeping them on an even keel with their bills paid may be the best you can hope for and so much depends on the extent of their illness and social network. A new immigrant with poor language skills who can't get a decent job is another situation and, candidly, it may be that their children are going to be the ones to be upwardly mobile since they won't be as hampered by language barriers and/or will have better opportunities to network with the children of the middle class. Encouraging someone who made poor decisions but has the ability to be socially mobile is a whole different problem and every situation is different. Some people are just stupid, some just have awful judgment. Some are just young and that is a time honored detour that doesn't have to ruin a life. I couldn't cite you the studies but from what I recall, although there is increasing income inequality, the stats suggest that it isn't static and that there is quite a bit of upward and downward income mobility with individuals.

    We had a thread awhile back where we discussed the phenomenon of how the widespread education of women and increased employment opportunities have contributed to less upward mobility. So the theory goes, not long ago women tended to have less education and married "up." By virtue of their marriages, their children ended up in a higher income class and their extended family also tended to benefit. These days, women going to college tend to marry men in college. Women in the work place are not as likely to marry the boss as in the old days, rather, they marry peers. The end result is that poor women are less likely to marry up and more affluent women are marrying in their own income class. The end result is less social mobility and people aren't really interacting with people not like themselves.
    Thank you, Penny. You are one of the most honest posters here. I don't always agree with you (but often do!) but I appreciate your willingness to weave your own experiences - even when they weren't the best decisions - to make a point and show alternatives. It's also clear to me that you are a kind and compassionate poster from just little posts you make checking on people, remembering little things people mention and check back on progress, etc. You don't often find that in forums like this. I'm a Penny fan.

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    Quote Originally Posted by soonerguru View Post
    There was a very specific post on this thread that said people choose to be poor. I didn't want to get into a flame war. And you are right, there are some people who make very poor life decisions that lead them to being poor. I was just hoping people could discuss specific ideas AT THE MUNICIPAL LEVEL that have worked in other cities.
    Dude, stop beating around the bush. Come right out and say it. You're talking about my post. When you say that some don't choose to be poor, you're getting into semantics and splitting hairs. It's the same sort of thing as no one chooses to have cancer yet they continue to smoke a pack a day. They make the choices to end up where they do.

    I never made a blanket statement saying all poor people made the choice to be that way but there's a lot in this state that make the choices to cause them to end up being poor. Government assistance and government programs aren't gong to solve this problem. You have to change their mindset. Or at least break the cycle so it's not passed down to their children. You have to change the culture. The question is how do you do that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by traxx View Post
    Dude, stop beating around the bush. Come right out and say it. You're talking about my post. When you say that some don't choose to be poor, you're getting into semantics and splitting hairs. It's the same sort of thing as no one chooses to have cancer yet they continue to smoke a pack a day. They make the choices to end up where they do.

    I never made a blanket statement saying all poor people made the choice to be that way but there's a lot in this state that make the choices to cause them to end up being poor. Government assistance and government programs aren't gong to solve this problem. You have to change their mindset. Or at least break the cycle so it's not passed down to their children. You have to change the culture. The question is how do you do that?
    Good question. I don't think anyone here has an easy answer. If they did, we wouldn't be having this discussion. As for your post, I avoided calling you out because there was much more depth to what you were writing than that statement.

    And I agree people make very poor choices that lead them to where they are. That does not equate to them saying, "I really want to be poor. That would be awesome."

    It seems you're making a blanket statement that no government programs will solve the problem. While that is true, does that not mean that government programs can be helpful in solving this problem, or at least in lessening the severity of this problem?

    There are many very successful people today who, for example, lived in government housing. There are many others who lived in similar housing who led failed lives. So the net is not "government housing is the answer" just as much as "government housing is bad."

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    Well we all know one thing, cutting income taxes that only affect the top 60%, which further starves education funding and creates larger class sizes and worse instruction thereby keeping Oklahoma near the bottom of education in this country is certainly a good move to reduce poverty.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by soonerguru View Post
    Good question. I don't think anyone here has an easy answer. If they did, we wouldn't be having this discussion. As for your post, I avoided calling you out because there was much more depth to what you were writing than that statement.

    And I agree people make very poor choices that lead them to where they are. That does not equate to them saying, "I really want to be poor. That would be awesome."

    It seems you're making a blanket statement that no government programs will solve the problem. While that is true, does that not mean that government programs can be helpful in solving this problem, or at least in lessening the severity of this problem?

    There are many very successful people today who, for example, lived in government housing. There are many others who lived in similar housing who led failed lives. So the net is not "government housing is the answer" just as much as "government housing is bad."
    Yeah, I don't think anyone says "I wanna be poor." But I go back to my smoking comparison. No one says, "I want cancer." But they keep making the choices that cause them to be poor or cause cancer.

    I think much of it has to do with priorities. It's not a priority to buy clothes for their children that fit or will keep them warm but it's a priority to have their cigarettes. That's why the kids wear oversized shirts advertising cigarettes. Many years back, I used to inspect home daycares. Many of the homes were not well kept or falling apart, they may have had a car out front that didn't run but they always had a huge TV. That was their priority.

    It's not that I think government assistance doesn't help anyone. It just seems that by and large it's abused. It does more harm than good. It gives people a hand out instead of a hand up. It rewards behavior that is in direct conflict with the behavior that would get them out of that situation. More kids = more $. I've got to have more kids so I can keep getting my checks. I would say that a better use of government money would be for a program to help change the culture and mindset of these misplaced priorities. But I'm afraid a government program would screw it up. I think a philantrhopist with a passion for it would make more progress. Or a botom up, grass roots community program rather than a top down, government funded or subsidized program.

    About ten years ago, I read a study (that I wish I could find now) about inner city kids and their health choices. They came to the conclusion that the kids knew about the physical dangers of smoking, drugs, eating poorly etc. But they just didn't care. Why not? Because of a lack of hope. They didn't think it'd make any difference to try to live better or be more healthy or make the decision to not start smoking or doing drugs. They had no hope that they would ever get out of the situation that they were raised in. No hope that it could be better or different.

    I think you make that same assumption for kids in rural Oklahoma. And it can be extended from health choices to financial choices or any choices they might make about their future. "Why should I try to do good at school? It'll never get any better. I can't do any better than my parents who obviously don't care. I can't do any better than work at Subway making sandwiches at the gas station. That's my plan after I graduate. If I graduate. I'll be lucky to make it past my sophomore year." Lack of hope changes priorities. It kills desire. It limits the future to where you can't see past tomorrow.

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    One thing that seems to influence people's financial situation is whether or not they have been convicted of a crime. Once someone has a record, it may be difficult to impossible to find a good job. Is there something that could be done on a municipal level to reduce the number of people "branded" as criminals while still continuing to fight crime?

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    The problem with a criminal record is one that I run into with my clients on a regular basis. One silver lining I've seen in that situation are the ones who go out and create their own businesses because they can't get a decent job, otherwise. That's rare but it happens. With more and more social media and ability to run background checks, it makes it all the harder for someone to get beyond their past.

    Employers are understandably not going to want to hire someone who is dishonest and they certainly don't want to get any tort liability arising from hiring someone who turns around and hurts someone. I don't think there is a good answer for it although I saw, someplace recently, where a bill was being floated to somehow keep prospective employers from discriminating on the basis of a criminal record. I think that's nuts.

    There are horrible repercussions for having a criminal record but to build on the previous post, if you don't think you've got much of a future, anyway, it doesn't seem like that big a deal at the time. If you think death is waiting, that is one thing. If you just think working is optional, then we've got a policy that practically encourages crime. How many of us wouldn't dare do something small because we know it would screw up our ability to make a living, cause us to lose a security clearance, lose our ability to have firearms, etc.? In discussions on the subject, most of us think in terms of jail when we think of deterrents. But for most working people, protecting our livelihood (or pension) is also a cultural control and likely at the forefront of our mind.

    Those of us with young kids, parents, etc., certainly don't want to have a criminal show up at our home if we don't know them. You'd worry that they would be casing the joint or, god forbid, looking for prey. I once had some tile installed and hired a guy on the say so of a family member. While he was working, he candidly mentioned that he'd spent time in jail on manslaughter after killing a guy in a bar fight. Now, I didn't think this guy was going to make the leap from killing someone in a barroom brawl to murdering some woman who had hired him to install tile in the bathroom but I don't mind telling you it freaked me out. I admired him for going out and trying to make his life okay. I just wish he did a better job laying tile. Honestly, I wouldn't have hired him if I'd known his record. I was home, alone, while he was working. Perhaps in another circumstance I'd have felt less leery.

    On the one hand, I feel some sympathy for people who screw up with petty crimes and are trying to get their lives in order. On the other, with the prevalence of plea bargaining, even if you know what they were convicted for, what actually happened is often even worse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by soonerguru View Post
    One thing that seems to influence people's financial situation is whether or not they have been convicted of a crime. Once someone has a record, it may be difficult to impossible to find a good job. Is there something that could be done on a municipal level to reduce the number of people "branded" as criminals while still continuing to fight crime?
    This is true. The continues expansion of crimes being considered a felony is doing nothing but keeping a person a 2nd class citizen for the rest of their life. It basically assures that person and any of their offspring to a life of poverty. Something needs to change about the type of work a person can do if they have been convicted of a felony.

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    Quote Originally Posted by traxx View Post
    Government assistance and government programs aren't gong to solve this problem. You have to change their mindset. Or at least break the cycle so it's not passed down to their children. You have to change the culture. The question is how do you do that?
    Quote Originally Posted by soonerguru View Post
    It seems you're making a blanket statement that no government programs will solve the problem. While that is true, does that not mean that government programs can be helpful in solving this problem, or at least in lessening the severity of this problem?

    There are many very successful people today who, for example, lived in government housing. There are many others who lived in similar housing who led failed lives. So the net is not "government housing is the answer" just as much as "government housing is bad."
    Quote Originally Posted by onthestrip View Post
    Well we all know one thing, cutting income taxes that only affect the top 60%, which further starves education funding and creates larger class sizes and worse instruction thereby keeping Oklahoma near the bottom of education in this country is certainly a good move to reduce poverty.....
    It actually isn't that hard to teach or learn financial skills. The problem is one of community-level leadership. If ministers in the impoverished neighborhoods moved away from the wishful thinking of "prosperity gospel" and toward something like or based on Financial Peace University change could happen. Things are the way they are because spiritual leaders in poor communities have found that is easier to tell people what they want to hear rather than what they need. A question for the pious: when is the last time your preacher quoted this verse?
    The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is the slave of the lender.
    Proverbs 22:7
    There isn't a municipal solution to poverty. Communities are composed of families and families of individuals. A change in attitude at the personal level is what is required, many times over.

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    onthestrip. it's not limited to those who have been convicted. I've seen numerous times where someone did something, and in lieu of a conviction they receive a deferred adjudication. If they jump through the appropriate hoops, pay the requisite financial amounts, etc., at the end of the deferral period, their case will be dismissed.

    I've also seen employers tell these people with no convictions, people whom even the prosecution feel are worthy of another chance to walk tall, that their services are no longer needed. So off on the job search they go, with many, many employers electing to pass them by.

    It's no less devastating to the person with no conviction, only a stain to their name for the time being, to be unable to find work than it is for the person who served their time and carry a conviction record through life. Some do find work. Some retain the jobs they had. But many do not.

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    I'm a fan, too. You are really giving me a lot to think about, Penny. I appreciate you sharing your personal experiences, also.

    I grew up with very bright, educated and incredibly hard-working parents. From about 1978 to 1981, we were very poor. Those four years shaped me in untold ways. I think it's important for people who have lived in poverty to share the grim realities of it, and when possible, contribute to policy-making processes. I am not prepared to share those grim realities yet, but someday I will. I do know that one must walk this road to truly understand it. Poverty is a culture and if you live in it long enough, you become part of it. It is so much more than underemployment, hunger or even bad choices. For so many, it's a life that is not just devoid of possibilities, but devoid of the notion that possibilities even exist.

    Quote Originally Posted by zookeeper View Post
    Thank you, Penny. You are one of the most honest posters here. I don't always agree with you (but often do!) but I appreciate your willingness to weave your own experiences - even when they weren't the best decisions - to make a point and show alternatives. It's also clear to me that you are a kind and compassionate poster from just little posts you make checking on people, remembering little things people mention and check back on progress, etc. You don't often find that in forums like this. I'm a Penny fan.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LandRunOkie View Post
    It actually isn't that hard to teach or learn financial skills. The problem is one of community-level leadership. If ministers in the impoverished neighborhoods moved away from the wishful thinking of "prosperity gospel" and toward something like or based on Financial Peace University change could happen. Things are the way they are because spiritual leaders in poor communities have found that is easier to tell people what they want to hear rather than what they need. A question for the pious: when is the last time your preacher quoted this verse?

    There isn't a municipal solution to poverty. Communities are composed of families and families of individuals. A change in attitude at the personal level is what is required, many times over.
    Several years ago, KOSU or KGOU interviewed Frosty Troy about poverty in Oklahoma. In that interview, he slammed the pulpit saying it had fallen silent in matters concerning the poor, incarceration of women, child hunger and more. It was a great interview and stayed with me because I knew firsthand it was true. IMO, the prosperity gospel is a bad interpretation of Biblical Scripture, but many wonderful people keep spreading it with great passion and hope. *Sigh*

    Regarding your last statement about no municipal solution to poverty, I can think of 50 different ways off the top of my head that municipal governments lift burdens from the poor. Here is one of my favorites: [url]http://www.okc.gov/PARKS/play_in_park/index.html.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JenX67 View Post
    IMO, the prosperity gospel is a bad interpretation of Biblical Scripture...
    You are sooooo right on target about this! Unfortunately, it is these people that non-believers look at as "Christians." I guess that is a subject for another thread.

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    I spent a great deal of time in the city parks in the summers of my youth, particularly the city wide swim league where we competed with each neighborhood pool association (Woodson, Macklanburg, etc). While the competition was not all that stiff, it was a great opportunity to meet people from different backgrounds. The familiarity I gained from being with these inner city people and their mind sets, it is one of the reasons I try to help when I can. But merely giving kids a free rec spot won't teach good financial habits. It bears repeating that I've known people who've taught Ramsey's Financial Peace classes with positive results for themselves and participants.

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    Are basic personal finance courses still not taught in high schools? If not that's a joke.

    LandRun you and I certainly have had battles, but you're dead on with what needs fixing, and what's sad is it's not just with the poverty stricken, kids in every class need this type of education.

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    I absolutely agree a personal finance class is so important for young people. A different problem that concerns me, however, is the commonplace utter lack of understanding of basic economics, supply and demand etc. displayed by policy makers. People ignorant of such things typically are less skeptical of the devil in the details and almost entirely focus on the stated intent of a policy. Criticism of a given policy or proposed policy is frequently met with rage and scorn as if criticizing the means is an attack on they intended end.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pahdz View Post
    Are basic personal finance courses still not taught in high schools? If not that's a joke.

    LandRun you and I certainly have had battles, but you're dead on with what needs fixing, and what's sad is it's not just with the poverty stricken, kids in every class need this type of education.
    Yes. And it wouldn't hurt to teach them civics and history, either.

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    Yes such a required class would be a positive. I took one as an elective in HS but it wasn't enough to "break" the learned behavior picked up from parents and media. Having the knowledge and making the right decisions are two totally totally different things. Its very humbling to give prescriptions and recommendations but the school of hard knocks can give you some pretty good lessons if you sit up and pay attention.

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