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SoonerDave
While waiting on some other stuff to finish, let me take a stab at your question...re the "bubble wrap."
I think it's because we have, for the first time, raised a generation to react in fear rather than react in knowledge. It isn't just in safety equipment or acceptability of helmets; it extends for the first time I can recall to nearly every facet of life.
We have developed this notion that it is acceptable if not preferable to recoil in fear at the notion of the possibility of an adverse consequence. We are able, through social media and cellphones, to spread the adverse consequence of *one* ugly reality - a bike wreck, a dog bite, a football injury, doesn't really matter - to the entire world in a matter of seconds. We sometime hear them referred to as the "daily outrage." These compelling visual images become the norm even though, in the light of reality, there exists the fact that they're *not*. The visual images drive us to react emotionally, out of fear, not rationally, out of knowledge.
For every kid who has a bad bike spill, there are *thousands* who rode their bikes without incident. For every bad dog bite, there are *thousands* of folks who took their dogs out without incident. For every bad football injury, there are thousands who played without being hurt - and I say that as the father of a kid who endured about as ugly an injury as you're going to see (and is 100% just fine now). This idea extends even to the way we practice medicine - we sell screenings on the basis of fear because *one* out of 500 or 1000 or whatever will be found to have XYZ ailment, and imply "you are at risk" if you aren't screened. How many commercials for medical procedures these days are sold on the basis of having "peace of mind," even if the probability of having the ailment-du-jour is 1:100,000 or 1:1,000,000 or even 1:100?
This whole notion has engendered the idea that we want a substantial degree of absolute safety in everything we do, and such a guarantee doesn't exist. A generation ago, we understood that in ways we don't know. We had a kind of wisdom, of common sense, that we've willingly lost.
Does that make bike pads and helmets a bad idea? Of course not. Does it make helmets and better equipment in football a wasteful idea? Surely not. What they represent is the opposite end of two very serious extremes; the "plastic bubble" extreme on the one end, and the "devil-may-care", lassies-faire attitude of "hoping" everything goes alright on the other. Reality is, as it so often seems to be, in the middle somewhere.
Right now, for myself, at the ripe age of 51, I find myself a lot more cautious than I was at, say, 15 or 25. Maybe its just getting old, maybe its appreciating risks I didn't appreciate before, who knows. But I also believe that, in those 51 years, I've seen American culture change to one much more predisposed to the "don't take the risk" end. I don't think, for example, the current generation would *ever* have gone to the moon. I can't fathom members of this generation hopping the Mayflower and setting out for a new world.
My kids wore helmets and pads riding their bikes; when I as a kid, I fell down so often trying to learn that my legs were black and blue, and I'm sure at some point my pediatrician was convinced my folks were beating me. (I was a horrendously uncoordinated and physically untalented kid). And it took some convincing for me to let my son play football - but despite his injury that I would give nearly anything to go back and undo, giving him that broader joy of playing football - however briefly - is something of which I would have hated to deprive him precisely *because* of how much joy it *did* give him - in *spite* of that injury. And he'd gladly have played into college had he possessed the requisite physical talent to play at that level....but that's a different issue.
The solution? While I believe society's problems are spiritual at their core (and THAT's also an entirely different discussion), information is next in line. We should be demanding more information about the *reality* of risks we're being taught to fear. We all know that winning the lottery is a hundreds-of-millions-to-one shot; let's hear the same risks for all the *other* things we're being sold. Too much of our decision-making is based on *one* bad example extrapolated to an entire population - and the reality of that can be seen in the absurd safety equipment and warnings plastered on nearly every retail product all because *one* person did something stupid, and a manufacturer was the one held responsible.
I look at how we've changed, and lament the loss of boldness, of fortitude, of courage, but I also see that more information can, when coupled with the right amounts of common sense and critical thinking, can identify stupid risks we no longer need to take. Right now, we are simply at a pendulum point closer to fear-based reaction rather than fact-based, and my hope is that, eventually, it swings back.
Hope that makes some sense.
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