Originally Posted by
chuck johnson
I agree with a lot of this and I think most Oklahomans have no idea how many young people leave the state. When I lived in San Francisco, I organized a OU football watch group. During my tenure, the group numbered in the hundreds, mostly recent grads in their 20's to those in their 30's. These were almost all OU grads and almost all grew up in Oklahoma. These were just the ones I could find that were interested in watching OU football. This is not including the grads from OSU, Tulsa, etc and older alum. There are several hundred young educated Oklahomans in the Bay area and even more older alum. There are countless others across the country. Oklahoma is hemorrhaging a lot of brainpower and talent.
As for why so many leave, there are a variety of reasons. There's a natural wanderlust when you're young. No matter where you're from, there's temptation for many to leave. There's a desire to see the world, to test your self, and to see if the grass is greener on the other side. For some it is greener and for some it isn't.
There's the obvious employment opportunities. The economy here is great, but options can be limited depending on your career choice. In some fields it's either a near requirement or highly recommended that you leave. We live in a smaller world, but it's generally a good idea to cut your teeth amongst the best of your field to become the best or ensure your success.
As many that do leave, some return and most never leave. I personally think it's important to leave if for only a little while. I do think OKC has become a far more attractive place to return to and live but still has a long way to go. It's great that the Thunder are here, but basketball is not a year round sport. All the other hallmarks of a great city still need to develop and grow a lot. There's no reason that OKC can't have an art, music, culinary scene that is as vibrant as Austin's. In my opinion, the only thing keeping that type of cultural growth from happening is the number of residents who don't see the value in it and don't actively support those who do try to spur that growth.
Oklahoma City is becoming more ethnically and socially diverse and too many residents see that as a liability as opposed to something to appreciate. I have Asian friends who couldn't believe I was moving back. I have gay friends who I can't believe are moving back. People should be welcomed and celebrated regardless of their ethnicity, or orientation and especially if they contribute to the cultural vitality of the city. The ethnic food here has gotten much better over the past decade as a result of the increased diversity. It's also no secret that in some of the formerly derelict neighborhoods that are now fully restored fabulously, the home owners are "Gary and Todd". Most Oklahoma City residents are very tolerant, but it's time to stop tolerating those differences and time to start celebrating them.
For those who try to make an effort to encourage cultural growth here, it can be daunting and disheartening. I have several friends who work in different facets of arts/music/culinary scene here who feel like they are just banging there heads against a wall. They feel great pride in their efforts and gains made, but they all know they could very easily leave and find a city more appreciative of their efforts. I've been back a little over a year and I'm still on the fence and the only reason there's any doubt in my mind is whether or not I want to go through what they are going through. I want to affect a change no matter where I live, but it would be much easier in a place receptive to change.
I'll probably stay, if only because of an old ad campaign that went somthing along the lines of, "If you love your country, Leave it. Learn everything you can about the world and bring the best of it back."
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