What I hate about being single

[Jay]

I hate pity parties. It seems to me there are a few singles here that are staying in the rut to get attention from some of the other board members.

Sure I have my moments when I come here to blow off steam but, I try to put a positive spin on it. I always keep it light hearted and never aim to bring people down to feel sorry for me.


In my opinion the pity parties have to stop. You do nothing but make this situation worse when you complain and take no action.

To all you eligible singles out there you will never find anyone while your down in the dumps.

Nobody wants someone who is an emotional wreck. People are attracted to people who lead happy interesting lives.

That does not mean you need a complete life makeover. It means you need to find happiness and find something interesting and challenging to put your talents towards. I do not care who you are everybody has a talent.

[Leon]

Here, here! I, for one, know I have been down on things over the last many months. But I'm quite a bit better now.

I'm not the Leon most of you are familiar with. It's all behind me now.

The new life looks much better than the old.

[kellekokid]

Here, here! I, for one, know I have been down on things over the last many months. But I'm quite a bit better now.

I'm not the Leon most of you are familiar with. It's all behind me now.

The new life looks much better than the old.

Yea!! I'm so glad to see that from you Leon! When you first started posting you were not only mad you were so sad. It has been interesting, encouraging and so nice to see you changing through your posts!

[Leon]

I hate doing ALL the Christmas shopping.....Two hours tonight, and guess what I came home with.....a twelve pack of beer.

[Karried]

I think for some people this might be the one place that they can come to and vent and express their hurt and lonliness. I don't see it as an attention getter - just a safe place to express themselves and share with others who might be feeling the same way. We all heal and recover at different rates.

But I also agree that we have to move forward and put ourselves out there in order to meet people.

[Leon]

I think for some people this might be the one place that they can come to and vent and express their hurt and lonliness. I don't see it as an attention getter - just a safe place to express themselves and share with others who might be feeling the same way. We all heal and recover at different rates.

But I also agree that we have to move forward and put ourselves out there in order to meet people.

Ummm,.....yeah, yeah, Baby, Let's go party! LOL

[Curt]

I hate doing ALL the Christmas shopping.....Two hours tonight, and guess what I came home with.....a twelve pack of beer.

You plan on sharing that with anyone? :spin:

[Curt]

Ummm,.....yeah, yeah, Baby, Let's go party! LOL

Down boy, down...she is married but maybe if'n I came down we could go round up some phillies to dance with?

[Leon]

Down boy, down...she is married but maybe if'n I came down we could go round up some phillies to dance with?

You ever come to OKC, PM me first, let me know...I've found two smokin' hot clubs recently.

[Leon]

Down boy, down...she is married but maybe if'n I came down we could go round up some phillies to dance with?

Kerrie's 'good people'. Risking her's, her family's, or my well-being is not even to be considered. But if she ever needs a cold beer, flat changed, or a dry shoulder, she'll be taken care of.

Kerried, aren't you from California?....You know what 'good people' means?

[Leon]

OK, another "Hate About Being Single": My place would probably look a lot more friendly if I had a little of that fru-fru stuff women put about. They call it "decorating", and men snub their noses at it 'cause we're just no damned good at it......Not too much, mind you,....that stuff has to be dusted.

[kellekokid]

I hate doing ALL the Christmas shopping.....Two hours tonight, and guess what I came home with.....a twelve pack of beer.

Party at Leon's!!

[osupa05]

I would love to have somebody to scratch that one stinkin' spot in the middle of my back that always itches and I can never reach no matter how contortionistic (spl?) I become... Because really, can that itch ever be satisfied by rubbing against a door??? I think not!!!!

[sweetdaisy]

Graduation gift for osupa05 - back scratcher. (I think one of those snazzy red plastic ones with the little hand on one end.)

[osupa05]

haha! but it's not a substitute.. you still have to do all the work.. how bout a very cute back scratcher in the form of a tall, dark and handsome man!!!

[mranderson]

haha! but it's not a substitute.. you still have to do all the work.. how bout a very cute back scratcher in the form of a tall, dark and handsome man!!!

Sorry ladies. I am spoken for now.

[Curt]

I want a back scratcher in the form of Sara Evans......

[sweetdaisy]

haha! but it's not a substitute.. you still have to do all the work.. how bout a very cute back scratcher in the form of a tall, dark and handsome man!!!

I'm wishing for a dishwasher that looks like that.

[sweetdaisy]

I have to add one more to the "what I hate about being single" list. I can't get my Christmas tree into my attic! An 8 ft. tree (Wow! That sucker is heavy!) going uphill on an attic ladder is not something little ol' me can do. SUCKY!

[mranderson]

I have to add one more to the "what I hate about being single" list. I can't get my Christmas tree into my attic! An 8 ft. tree (Wow! That sucker is heavy!) going uphill on an attic ladder is not something little ol' me can do. SUCKY!

You could do what we are doing. We are having a holiday tree. February is a Valentines tree, March a St Patricks day tree, April an Easter tree, May a Memorial day tree, etc.

[sweetdaisy]

LMAO! That's awesome, Mr. Anderson!

[Oki_Man5]

Goodness, and here before I read all this stuff that people must think married people do for each other, I thought I was married. I have been with the same woman with the benefit of having stood in front of a preacher for so many years that I cannot count them any more, but most of the things youall speak of as being part of being married, I cannot relate to.

Happy New Year!

Pete

[osupa05]

You mean I won't get my back scratched every night???? Boo! ;~)

[mranderson]

"what do you guys think? what do you hate about it all?"

I hate the fact that when your dog lays dying, there is no one there to hold you while you cry your eyes out.

[Oki_Man5]

OSUPA LOL

Noticing that line of guys who heard about your needs extending from your front door all the way down the block and winding down the street all the way to Wal-Mart where they are getting that last minute manicure (LOL That is me getting the pedicure LOL I wanna do it a different way. (Scratch that itch, now, so get your mind back on that itch) LOL), so when they have their ill-fated attempt to fulfill your scratching need and squelch your craving, they will leave no marks. LOL

It is a challenge for us guys to keep the next guy from getting a chance at it.

Pete

Note: My apologies in advance if this is considered offensive; it was not meant to be.