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[Matt]

Matt, that isn't funny.

Compared to your defining what sex slavery was for that poor guy earlier, it wasn't, I agree.

[rcjunkie]

Matt, that isn't funny.

There's an A$$ (I mean Clown) in every crowd.

[ronronnie1]

Hey, just because someone works at a grocery store, that doesn't automatically make them a killer. I've known plenty of people with those kinds of jobs and none of them would even hurt a fly.

LOVE it. And yes, it was funny.

[nik4411]

if she was leaving a friends house at 3:30 am i would put my money on that she was drunk. i dont know that she was, but that's what i would guess. dont drink and drive. r.i.p. sad stuff.

[rcjunkie]

if she was leaving a friends house at 3:30 am i would put my money on that she was drunk. i don't know that she was, but that's what i would guess. dont drink and drive. r.i.p. sad stuff.

The truly sad part is that people make statements like yours about someone they don't know. How can you say that just because she left somewhere at 3:30 am, she must have been drunk, you must really be a sad and lonely human being. Make a few calls, there's help for almost any problem.

I guess if you can assume that, we can assume that your an idiot and I'd bet my annual salary I'm closer to being correct then you are.

[oneforone]

The truly sad part is that people make statements like yours about someone they don't know. How can you say that just because she left somewhere at 3:30 am, she must have been drunk, you must really be a sad and lonely human being. Make a few calls, there's help for almost any problem.

I guess if you can assume that, we can assume that your an idiot and I'd bet my annual salary I'm closer to being correct then you are.

Let's think about it for a minute, would someone who is sober and of sound mind go cruise the dark roads of rural Oklahoma County in the middle of winter with below freezing condtions? No, probably not. The only way someone would do such a thing is if they were upset or under the influence of something.

Nobody is calling this girl a drunk or druggie. Everyone is discussing what might have happened to her.

It has been reported by police that she left the party at 3 AM. Chances are more than likely that drugs and alcohol were present at that party.
The parents reported this morning she recently started taking a new pain medication for lyme disease.

[ddavidson8]

I have a feeling a she had stocker, a crazy ex-boyfriend or something like that. If not that she was intoxicated or emotionally disturbed to a point to where she just drove and got lost.

Please don't equate stockers to crazy people. There are many level headed grocery and retail stockers in this world.

[ddavidson8]

It is sad, but I find everyone's distress to be a bit overstated. Did any of you know her personally? Again, I'm not saying this isn't a terrible situation, but come on.

[oneforone]

Please don't equate stockers to crazy people. There are many level headed grocery and retail stockers in this world.

I must have been half a sleep last night.

Stalker not Stocker.

[Roadhawg]

My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends.

[Matt]

Please don't equate stockers to crazy people. There are many level headed grocery and retail stockers in this world.

ddavidson8, that isn't funny.

[ddavidson8]

I'm sorry Matt.

[onthestrip]

The truly sad part is that people make statements like yours about someone they don't know. How can you say that just because she left somewhere at 3:30 am, she must have been drunk, you must really be a sad and lonely human being. Make a few calls, there's help for almost any problem.

I guess if you can assume that, we can assume that your an idiot and I'd bet my annual salary I'm closer to being correct then you are.

This must be rcjunkie's new thing, to come on here and blast anyone (usually just calls them sad and lonely) who writes anything that he thinks is insensitve. Nobody is a sad and lonely because they thought it was possible for a young girl to be drinking on an early friday morning at a friends house. No, that never happens at friends houses late at night.

Obviously this is a sad situation and no one can deny that, but if there is a joke about something in this thread, just ignore them. No need to waste a post on how sad and lonely people are and how you are putting someones screen name in your prayer list.

[nik4411]

The truly sad part is that people make statements like yours about someone they don't know. How can you say that just because she left somewhere at 3:30 am, she must have been drunk, you must really be a sad and lonely human being. Make a few calls, there's help for almost any problem.

I guess if you can assume that, we can assume that your an idiot and I'd bet my annual salary I'm closer to being correct then you are.

ok thank you to the folks who find rcjunkie a complete moron. did you know her rc? no, you probably didn't. this is a sad story, but hell, this is one of many horrible stories that happen every freaking day. and yea, like i previously said, i don't know that she was drunk (try reading sentences fully) but leaving a friends past 3 a.m. and the fact that she was in a sorority, the fact that my cousin/roomate was fraternity brothers with two of her brothers lets me lean towards that fact.

as far as calling me an idiot, easy to do on the internet tough guy. i'd love to meet you face to face and see if you'd do the same. i'll bet my savings you wouldn't you coward. i'd also bet the same amount that i'm probably half your age and have seen more, done more, been more places and generally know more than you. calling me a sad lonely person? lets see, you registered here in november (a full year after i did) and have more posts than I. i'm thinking youre the sad and lonely one. get a hobby.

[PennyQuilts]

My sister died in a car accident when she was 18. Forgive me if I feel sympathy for her and her family and don't think it is funny. I suspect it easier to dismiss it or just call it a story from the paper, even joke about it if you haven't been through it or seen a mother grieve at the loss. And god knows, when you are anonymous, you can indulge yourself in meanspirited, tasteless comments until the cows come home.

[rcjunkie]

ok thank you to the folks who find rcjunkie a complete moron. did you know her rc? no, you probably didn't. this is a sad story, but hell, this is one of many horrible stories that happen every freaking day. and yea, like i previously said, i don't know that she was drunk (try reading sentences fully) but leaving a friends past 3 a.m. and the fact that she was in a sorority, the fact that my cousin/roomate was fraternity brothers with two of her brothers lets me lean towards that fact.

as far as calling me an idiot, easy to do on the internet tough guy. i'd love to meet you face to face and see if you'd do the same. I'll bet my savings you wouldn't you coward. i'd also bet the same amount that I'm probably half your age and have seen more, done more, been more places and generally know more than you. calling me a sad lonely person? lets see, you registered here in November (a full year after i did) and have more posts than I. I'm thinking you're the sad and lonely one. get a hobby.

Did I know her, NO, and neither did the poster that wrote "I wished I'd found her first, she's hot" you give no indication that you knew her, and you state that you would bet drugs or alcohol were involved. Making these type of remarks about anyone, especially someone you know nothing about, is not only irresponsible, but idiotic. As for your being half my age, that's obvious from the immaturity of your postings.

[ronronnie1]

and you state that you would bet drugs or alcohol were involved. Making these type of remarks about anyone, especially someone you know nothing about, is not only irresponsible, but idiotic.

***and then he said this***

rcjunkie QUOTE, "I think he said yes to many times, even after being told what long term use/abuse would do!!!"

Yeah, you just played yourself a fool for all the world to see. Stupid is as stupid does. Have a nice day.

[rcjunkie]

***and then he said this***

rcjunkie QUOTE, "I think he said yes to many times, even after being told what long term use/abuse would do!!!"

Yeah, you just played yourself. Stupid is as stupid does. Have a nice day.

I ws trying to give him an out, something to blame his Dumb A$$ remarks on, hoping to help him save face and give him the option of blaming it on something other than ignorance.

[nik4411]

give up you fool. i have nothing to save face for. go fight another battle. you lose here. FAIL. again, learn to read you muppet brain. when did i ever mention drugs. READ FULL SENTENCES. if you want to meet up i can teach you how to read.


and i'm done with this. i won't respond to you again rc. i feel bad for hijacking a thread about this.
sorry to all who had to read this.
r.i.p. miss gilbert

[so1rfan]

The internet is not a contest. Because it is mainly consists of nothing but losers.

[Matt]

From the "Help bring Julia Gilbert home" Facebook group:



I'm not sayin', I'm just sayin'.

[PennyQuilts]

Sweet looking child.

[ronronnie1]

Just heard on channel 4 news, Ms Gilbert was on pain pills (Lortab, Percocet, whatever). She looks kind of loopy in that picture. Look at her eyes. This story actually has a happy ending. At least she only killed herself and didn't have a headon collision with someone else.

Moral of the story: Don't go driving around after you've taken pain pills.

[rcjunkie]

To the Gilbert family, my sympathy and condolences on the loss of your daughter, life is so precious, take comfort in knowing she's in the arms of a Loving God.

As stated before, I'm no longer surprised by the total lack of Humanity and Compassion that some display, it saddens me, but anymore it's a daily occurrence. I think one reason this situation affects me so much is that in 1994, I lost two children in a tragic auto accident, and to this day, the pain and grief are almost unbearable.

A wife who loses a husband is called a widow, A husband who loses a wife is called a widower, A child who loses his parents is called an orphan. But..there is no word for a parent who loses a child, that's how awful the loss is.


matt/nik4411/ronronnie1/lasomeday, please study the following and learn a valuable life lesson:

Humanity: the quality or state of being humane.
Humane: marked by compassion, sympathy, or consideration for humans or animals.
Compassion: sympathetic consciousness of others distress together with a desire to alleviate it.

Learn the above traits or go through life with the following traits!

Idiot: usually offensive; a foolish or stupid person.
Ignorant: destitute of knowledge or education, lacking knowledge or comprehension of the thing specified. Unaware or Uninformed.
Moron: a very stupid person.

[PennyQuilts]

rc, I don't have words to express my sadness that you lost two children. Even one child is more than I can get my brain around. My condolences to you, their mother, and the rest of your family. If you have other children, special thoughts for them. People walk around with so much pain in their hearts - don't know how they do it.