Re: A Short Story to Spark Some New Chat
What exactly is Jock Material? Never heard that one.......
I'm thinking dating and business are similar in today's world.
It used to be in sales training we were all taught hard sale, cold call, shove the product down their throat, used car salesperson, furniture whatever, we were taught all of these closing techniques regardless if the client even needed the product! Sell, sell, sell!
Now, clients being more savvy won't accept the pushy aggressive salesperson eg: " Hi I'm Karrie, I know you don't know me from Adam, but can I sell your half a million dollar home today? " nah... doesn't work at all. It's all about relationships, trust, repoire, getting to know someone, finding out their needs and trying to meet their needs over your own needs (commission or a date).
I think women are the same - more savvy, not relating to old pick up lines. Develop a relationship, friendship or at least spend some time talking about non- threatening things before asking for a date. People love to talk about themselves or their dog or their job.... I think starting a conversation on the weather or location can lead into a nice conversation and the D word shouldn't be brought up for a lonngg time.
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