what do i do now?

[PennyQuilts]

At 21 I'd been married 5 years and was expecting my 3rd child (of course, I'm female but thought I'd throw that in). I'm not saying that some men aren't the type to settle down at that age but the majority aren't ready, yet. And I wouldn't worry or apologize or feel weird about it as long as you're honest about your intentions. Integrity matters, no matter the age.

[Karried]

At 21 I was out dancing the night away with my friends.... but I had been in a longterm relationship prior to that for about 5 years! I started young.. he was a little older..

Anyway, I got married at 24 - going on 20 years this August.

I think it's a good idea to enjoy being single and young....

[mmonroe]

Well, I def enjoy myself. Party with friends, both guys and gals. I was in a 4 year relationship in junior high/high school, but that was about it. I've dated off and on, but non of those girls I could see myself settling down with.

[PennyQuilts]

If you can't see yourself settling down with one, listen to your gut. When you meet the right one, you'll know.

[Toadrax]

If you are not happy being single you will not be happy in any relationship.

It is like dumbo thinking he needs a feather, you don't need a girlfriend.

When you are young, anything you could want from a girl you can get MORE of when you are single. Anything you don't like about a girl, you'll get LESS of when you are single.

Hooking up is just a way to cut your losses or maybe start a family, all stuff you should save for when you are older.