Just a little warning to those of us who don't really like to or want to believe that something might be wrong with us.

My good friend called me this morning and her brother in law died of a massive heart attack last night. He was 41 years old.

Here 's the worst part. He went to a clinic yesterday, he had been having horrible muscle pain in his right arm and his chest felt tight ( well, he had slipped a few weeks ago and thought he pulled something in his shoulder, but it was getting worse and worse) ... the doctor told him to head straight to the Emergency room because the EKG was abnormal... his wife didn't have a ride home from FAA where they commuted together so he decided to go pick her up first... ( I know, I know, it gets worse)... he then goes to the Doctor, waits three hours and gets fed up with waiting.. just as he was ready to walk out, they did another EKG - nothing showed up. They rescheduled him an appt on a treadmill for tomorrow.. he went home, took a nap, woke up, opened a bill from the mail on the couch, gasped and died instantly.

41 years old. The whole family is in complete and utter shock.

Wake up call for all of us.