Sympathy, sympathy, sympathy. All of these singles, especialy the divorced ones, want people to feel sorry for them. Singles, listen closely. The answer is not to dwell on your past. The answer is to get off your butt, get out, and try to make a difference in your life.

That's the way my counselor put it to me when I was single. Most decent psychologists won't sit there and listen to your complaints without submitting a resolution. The resolution is for you to get singlehood off your mind and get out and make an effort to meet people. Otherwise, your other choice is to sit, sulk, and be miserable. Many of you prefer the last choice.