What are you NOT looking for

[mranderson]

What "red flags" would change your mind about dating someone of the opposite sex? (different than "turn off's)

[ErnieBall]

Their car has a Bush sticker on it.

[suzi]

Talking about their ex.

[mranderson]

To quote the late Struther Martin in "Cool Hand Luke," "What we have here is a failure to communicate."

I need 100%, total communication. If she is ready to hold hands, tell me. If she wants to go out more, tell me. If she wants to end it, tell me and tell me TRUTHFULLY why. To not say anything and just dump me hurts... I am a big boy, I can handle the truth.

[HOT ROD]

Their car has a Bush sticker on it.

ha ha ha ha ha, that is soo funny. But true!!!

[Patrick]

Someone who's more concerned about how beautiful they look than having the date with you. Selfish women in general.

Women who are more concerned about sex and your physical features than your heart and simply getting to know you. Remember....looks don't always last. That's why many marriages fail.

[El Gato Pollo Loco!!!]

If they are my ex....

[MadMonk]

- Smoking...like kissing an ashtray. Bleh
- Vegitarian - although if she doesn't give me grief and lets me do my thing, that's ok.
- Any chick who supported Kerry - it would be like talking to a brick wall, only there would be more whining involved.

[pilar5422]

self-absorbtion and anyone that obviously has a hard time with honesty.

[kschopfer]

I'm not looking for anyone who lets grass grow under their feet.
Someone who is a procrastinator, or does not take life by the bullhorns.