I know we've had threads where we complain about such things before. But it's usually a case of us going off topic. So I thought we should have a thread where we can just vent about such things.

I'll start:

I was slowed down on the way to work today by a wreck that happened...wait for it...yesterday. How do I know it happened yesterday? Because I saw the police working it yesterday and I recognized the vehicle from yesterday. For whatever reason, it wasn't towed and removed. It was well into the median and not anywhere near being on the road or being an obstruction. Yet traffic was stop and go for miles. But when we passed that vehicle, the speed of traffic picked up and we were going at least the speed limit if not faster. People were obviously slowing down to rubber neck. It wasn't out of conern for safety. I just can't understand this.

Looky Lou's are the worst. I am always worried I'll be slowed down by one in front and rear ended by the one behind me.

I have one, too. This morning, some person missed his exit and, instead of just going to the next one and turning around, he darted across two lanes of traffic, across the solid line and cross-hatch, and almost caused four other cars to collide with one another. Common sense has gone by the wayside.

If I may suggest, pick up a copy of Traffic by Tom Vanderbilt. It will answer every question you have. BTW - spoiler alert. The fact that you know it was the same car both times is why traffic was backed up. He has a whole section just on that. It will forever change how you drive.

I will have to read a copy of that. I would really like to find out if there is any rhyme or reason for the way some people drive.

I saw someone do something so freaking insane/complicated/stupid/illegal to keep from having to sit at a red light to make a right turn that I don't even know if I can describe it with words..... but here goes.

I'm at the intersection of SW 119th and Western (Here's a link to Google Map for reference (https://www.google.com/maps/@35.3487354,-97.5299019,154m/data=!3m1!1e3?hl=en)). A 7-11 sits on the SE corner of the intersection. I was following a truck that was following a car in the outside westbound lane. The car in the lead brakes for the yellow light and the truck following, and now signalling to make the right turn, northbound, on to Western, makes a sharp left (south) across 5 lanes of traffic (3 westbound and 2 eastbound) and whips into the 7-11 parking lot. Narrowly misses hitting a person walking to the gas pumps and navigates to the furthest south entry drive of the 7-11 parking lot on Western. Traffic ties them up briefly but they make the right from the parking lot northbound onto Western and then proceed to run the, now, red light for northbound Western.

I see a lot of idiotic things happen while driving around but this was hands down the most extremely idiotic traffic maneuver I've ever seen anyone make in my life.

I will have to read a copy of that. I would really like to find out if there is any rhyme or reason for the way some people drive.

There is most definitely a reason. The book is full of studies, mathmatics, logic, behavior science of large groups, road design, etc... I'll let you in on another secret, none of us are as good at driving as we think we are, primarily because we judge ourselves by the number of accidents or traffic tickets, which is the wrong standard.

For example, if your lane is closed ahead do you merge as soon as possible or at the last second? Read the book to find out which is better.

I judge my driving based on lack of conflicts, avoidance of dangerous situations and slowdowns, and perhaps primarily on how rarely I cause other drivers to have to avoid ME by slowing down, hitting brakes, changing lanes, etc.

I judge my driving based on lack of conflicts, avoidance of dangerous situations and slowdowns, and perhaps primarily on how rarely I cause other drivers to have to avoid ME by slowing down, hitting brakes, changing lanes, etc.

That is a start but you only know if you inconvenience another driver if they tell you with a honk, middle finger, or gun shot. What about the pedestrian you would have hit if not for some random act of fate which disrupted time by mere seconds, and whom to this day you don't even know you almost killed while you changed radio stations.

That last part happens way more often than you can imagine.

The fact that you know it was the same car both times is why traffic was backed up.

There's a couple of reasons I knew it was the same car. Yesterday, traffic was moving slow as the police worked the wreck. Today traffic was moving slow so I could see a couple of hundred feet in advance, as we crept along, that it was that car. Also, you don't see a vehicle strattling the safety cable everday either, so that stuck out to me.

When I could see what was causing the slow down this morning, I rolled my eyes and thought, "You gotta be kidding." I had expreienced stop and go traffic (mostly stop) because everyone wanted to look at a vehicle that wasn't anywhere near the traffic.

And that is where the backup comes from. Everyone in front of you taking their 5 seconds to look at it, and those 5 seconds aren't just counted once, they are counted by each car in the traffic. 5 people taking 5 seconds isn't a 25 second delay, it is a 75 second delay. The math gets pretty cool.

For example, if your lane is closed ahead do you merge as soon as possible or at the last second? Read the book to find out which is better.

This reminded me of those old Time/Life book commercials.

Another cool phenomena is the appearance that the 'other' lane moves faster. It doesn't eventhough time wise you are being passed by the other lane 66% of the time. Try to figure that out for awhile.

The fastest way through congestion is to never change lanes unless you have to, and if you have to do it at the last second. Not only is it faster for you, but it is better for everyone else as well - even if they get mad and threaten not to let you in.

That is a start but you only know if you inconvenience another driver if they tell you with a honk, middle finger, or gun shot. What about the pedestrian you would have hit if not for some random act of fate which disrupted time by mere seconds, and whom to this day you don't even know you almost killed while you changed radio stations.

That last part happens way more often than you can imagine.
Thanks for your patronizing tone, but I have a pretty good idea when I have inconvenienced another driver, since paying close attention to such things has been a guiding philosophy of mine for decades. Much longer, in fact, than you have been lecturing me (and everyone else) on this board. If the only way you know that you've inconvenienced someone is for one of your above-mentioned confrontations to happen, YOU, my friend, are not just a part of the problem, you ARE the problem.

If every driver on the road paid attention to their own merges, lane changes, etc., with the overriding principle that another driver should never be forced to tap their brakes, slow down or otherwise take evasive action due to their own actions, 90% of driving issues on the road would be solved and many thousands of lives would be saved annually.

I would also say that if everyone learned to drive on a motorcycle first - including mandatory motorcycle safety classes - before graduation to automobiles the would would also be a much safer place. **** gets a lot more real on a motorcycle, and learning to recognize and avoid dangerous situations becomes much more integral to the driving experience. I can promise that I am a better automobile driver after having spent quite a few years on two wheels.

Sorry you took offense to my comment, I didn't mean you specifically but 'you' in general. Data in that study came from cameras and sensors placed all around several hundred cars on the interior and exterior and then driven by test subjects for thousands of miles. At the end they were asked to rate how well they thought they drove. Then the data was analyzed and the camera images reviewed. Turns out they all drove poorly, and yes that would include me.

My point is that most people drive in such a way as to get there more quickly, etc., when they should instead be concentrating on making the right decisions well in advance, and paying attention to what is happening not just in or around their own car, but also 1/4 mile down the road. Being in the correct lane for their speed and destination, making legal turns to inside lanes instead of outside lanes, properly timing merges, signalling properly, and more than anything else never requiring other drivers to account for driver A's behavior. If I merge at the same speed as the traffic (or even a bit faster), if I don't turn across 2 or 3 lanes in front of oncoming cars, etc., etc., the world is a safer place, I have fewer actually (roughly zero) conflicts, flipoffs, horn honks, less stress, and probably STILL get there at the same time as if I had been driving "me first". I'm not suggesting driving scared, or even slowly (I'm a habitual 5-10 over) and I'm not saying to pull over and let others pass when you're gridlocked; I'm just saying that the overriding rule HAS to be to not get into the way of others on the road.

There is most definitely a reason. The book is full of studies, mathmatics, logic, behavior science of large groups, road design, etc... I'll let you in on another secret, none of us are as good at driving as we think we are, primarily because we judge ourselves by the number of accidents or traffic tickets, which is the wrong standard.

For example, if your lane is closed ahead do you merge as soon as possible or at the last second? Read the book to find out which is better.

Kind of in between. You get as close to the merge point as possible. But, that is assuming people will let you in and you MERGE with traffic, not haul ass and fit in causing traffic to slow down.

In traffic jams, you want to have a proper following distance that will allow you to keep a constant speed even though traffic is stop-and-go in front of you.

Opinions?

Kind of in between. You get as close to the merge point as possible. But, that is assuming people will let you in and you MERGE with traffic, not haul ass and fit in causing traffic to slow down.

In traffic jams, you want to have a proper following distance that will allow you to keep a constant speed even though traffic is stop-and-go in front of you.

Opinions?

Absolutely. I always keep a little distance between my car and the one in front of me, but that's also because my Accord is a manual and I hate downshifting and upshifting an unnecessary amount of times. It's a lot easier and less stressful to just maintain a constant speed and only change lanes when it is necessary.

Having a right fair understanding of what it can cost to need my services, or the services of someone like me, I have to say my driving is considerably different than in my younger days.

I'm frequently 30-45 minutes ahead of my must be on site by X time. I've learned to use the time after arrival for those things that used to be crammed at to be done up to the last possible second before I departed in a rush to beat a clock. Added bennie, most of the officers I meet today are in courthouses, parking lots of the same, or grabbing a cup of joe while I am grabbing a soda. Definitely not the way I used to meet up with officers. How ya doing today makes much better conversation than Hi, I can explain.

I still have to deal with accidents, but these days it's after the fact and by being helpful to someone who needs assistance, not wondering in a bit of a daze how the bleep did that just happen or exhaling while musing dang, that was way way too close for comfort.

Step 1 was admitting I was part of the problem.
Step 2 was to start paying more attention while I was behind the wheel. Yes, there was a time I was one of the hordes of cocky so and sos who sat utterly convinced we could out drive the world with only half an eye on the road. A kiddo's first, and fortunately minor, fender bender will change a man's attitude fairly quick.

Some schools must already be out for summer. Traffic during the commute to work today was far less heavy. I can always tell when school is out because traffic is so much better going to work.

I, by no means, think that I'm a perfect driver. But I do plan ahead while I'm behind the wheel, thinking about where I need to be to make my next move in traffic. I pay attention to the traffic and what other drivers are doing or what it looks like they're about to do. A lot of times you can tell what a driver is about to do by where there car is in the lane and their speed. I try not to do things to other drivers that I wouldn't want done to me. But I also usually realize it when I make a bonehead move.

I don't understand the personal attack on Kerry. He has done a lot of study on urbanism (and all things concerning). Everyone doesn't have to agree with him (I know how he feels) but his opinions are educated opinions and there's a big difference.

I appreciate his reference to the book. I just bought the Kindle version for $11.99 at Amazon. 4 out of 5 stars and 200 reviews.

As if the entire vicinity of The Intersection from Hell (Memorial and Penn) wasn't bad enough, already: for the last few days there have been uniformed and safety-vested Charity Beggars in addition to the regular dumbasses, dolts and dweebs clogging the roadway. Please note that I didn't mention "drivers" because I only saw about two of them.

One of the "Collection Agents" actually had the audacity to stray from the safety of the median and wander, with a semi-dazed look on her face, between the lanes of cars headed northbound and stopped at the light. Had I been approached by one of these do-gooders, I would have had to say: "Sorry, I can't feel right about contributing to the enabling of another traffic hazard."

I feel better now. Thank you.

As if the entire vicinity of The Intersection from Hell (Memorial and Penn) wasn't bad enough, already: for the last few days there have been uniformed and safety-vested Charity Beggars in addition to the regular dumbasses, dolts and dweebs clogging the roadway. Please note that I didn't mention "drivers" because I only saw about two of them.

One of the "Collection Agents" actually had the audacity to stray from the safety of the median and wander, with a semi-dazed look on her face, between the lanes of cars headed northbound and stopped at the light. Had I been approached by one of these do-gooders, I would have had to say: "Sorry, I can't feel right about contributing to the enabling of another traffic hazard."

I feel better now. Thank you.

I know what you mean about the people collecting money in that area.

The fire department is having their 'Fill the Boot' campaign right now raising money for MDA.

If you have a question about which lane is the faster, just get in the lane I'm NOT in.

Well, if Memorial and Penn is the intersection from hell, allow me to nominate a couple for dishonorable mentions. Mac Arthur between I-40 and Reno is ridiculous. My other non-favorite is I-240 (I like to call it 74th just to rile people) and Penn.

Traffic would run so much smoother if folks would follow the rule of turning left into the left lane and right turn into the right lane. Flashing yellow left does not trump green right. Right turn on red AFTER stop and ONLY when it's clear. This rant brought to you by a measly little trip to Wal Mart in Mustang an hour ago.

Traffic would run so much smoother if folks would follow the rule of turning left into the left lane and right turn into the right lane. Flashing yellow left does not trump green right. Right turn on red AFTER stop and ONLY when it's clear. This rant brought to you by a measly little trip to Wal Mart in Mustang an hour ago.

A few weeks ago I was traveling north on Rockwell planing to turn right onto Memorial. There were 3 cars in front of me who also planned on turning right/east, with all 4 of us using our turn signals.

Southbound Rockwell had 3 people waiting to turn left/east, waiting in the left turn lane with the flashing yellow light.

With all 7 cars lined up, and all of us using our turn signals to make our intentions clear, the scene was set for a small Oklahoma City miracle: all 7 cars decided to proceed to turn in their respective lanes. Every car turning right turned into the right lane on Memorial, every car turning left turned into the left lane on Memorial. Each of the three northbound cars in front of me pairing up with one of the southbound cars in a delicate dance so choreographed that I couldn't believe I was in Oklahoma City and not in some sort of car commercial.

As I followed the cars on Memorial I shed a small tear because I knew that I witnessed history that day.

A few weeks ago I was traveling north on Rockwell planing to turn right onto Memorial. There were 3 cars in front of me who also planned on turning right/east, with all 4 of us using our turn signals.

Southbound Rockwell had 3 people waiting to turn left/east, waiting in the left turn lane with the flashing yellow light.

With all 7 cars lined up, and all of us using our turn signals to make our intentions clear, the scene was set for a small Oklahoma City miracle: all 7 cars decided to proceed to turn in their respective lanes. Every car turning right turned into the right lane on Memorial, every car turning left turned into the left lane on Memorial. Each of the three northbound cars in front of me pairing up with one of the southbound cars in a delicate dance so choreographed that I couldn't believe I was in Oklahoma City and not in some sort of car commercial.

As I followed the cars on Memorial I shed a small tear because I knew that I witnessed history that day.

Just an FYI, there isn't a yellow flashing arrow there, only a green arrow.

Well, whatever the "yield to oncoming traffic" signal is at that intersection...

This has been driving me nuts, can we fix the spelling on the title of this thread please!

This has been driving me nuts, can we fix the spelling on the title of this thread please!

I spelled it that way because there's nothing official about this thread.

What, should it be "compliant?" I hope not. I'm tired of complying.

I spelled it that way because there's nothing official about this thread.

Wouldn't be Unaphishul then?

Saw a dude today pull a stunt that I've seen several times and have never understood.

So I'm in the center lane on the freeway. Guy's coming and passing me in the left lane. Guy in front of me decides, "This is the right time for me to get in the left lane." So he squeezes into the safety space between the guy passing me on the left and the vehicle in front of him. The guy passing me on the left puts on his brakes to avoid a collission. When the guy on my left finally passes me, guess what I see. A few hundred yards of open road behind him. This genius in front of me just had to cut the guy off in the left hand lane and slide over right in front of him and nearly cause a wreck. He couldn't have waited a second and slid into the hundreds of yards of empty space behind the guy. I just don't understand why people do this.

Saw a dude today pull a stunt that I've seen several times and have never understood ..... I just don't understand why people do this.

I don't understand it either but see it happen way too often.

Another of my pet peeves is people that either can't, or won't, park correctly.... needless to say this really chapped my rear this morning.

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My first thought was this (with credit to XKCD (https://xkcd.com/562/)):
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But I never have a cutting torch with me, sadly... so perhaps this bumper sticker (https://www.threadless.com/product/187/I_Park_Like_an_Idiot) would be more appropriate:
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My first thought was this (with credit to XKCD (https://xkcd.com/562/)):
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But I never have a cutting torch with me, sadly... so perhaps this bumper sticker (https://www.threadless.com/product/187/I_Park_Like_an_Idiot) would be more appropriate:
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Do Your Park Magnets (http://doyourpark.com/)

^^^Careful with this link. I had a heck of a time getting back from it. I do like the bumper sticker, though.

I just wish people wouldn't make it their life's goal to be assholes on the road. For no good reason, other than because they can.

I just wish people wouldn't make it their life's goal to be assholes on the road. For no good reason, other than because they can.

I came up with a theory on A-holes while making the merge onto I-35 South from I-40 West one day.

Basically there are 3 A-hole genes... Dominant, Passive, & Passive Dominant.

The Passive A-hole never makes an aggressive maneuver while driving. Their only real liability is that sometimes they are too passive in their driving decision making. These drivers will turn on a signal to make a lane change with plenty of space to do so but never make the lane change due to their indecisevness.

The Dominant A-hole is an A-hole all the time. We all know who they are and what they do.... Tailgating, passing on the right using on/off ramps, exiting across multiple lanes.

The Passive-Dominant A-hole is the most intriguing of the three.... This driver is courteous and careful most of the time until a driver with the Dominant A-hole gene enters there vicinity. This is when the Dominant part of the Passive-Dominant gene kicks in and the driver will attempt to out A-hole the A-hole.... Common techniques include break checking, speeding up to stop being passed on the right, bottle necking.

I just wish people wouldn't make it their life's goal to be assholes on the road. For no good reason, other than because they can.

I don't know that I come across people who make it their life goal to be an a-hole on the road. I come across people who are a-holes because they are oblivious to other people on the road. They only think about themselves and what their need is. I could be reading them all wrong though. It just seems to me that the people I come across don't say, "Hey, I'm gonna cut this guy off to be a jerk or just because I can." No, it seems to be more a case of, "I need to change lanes. I'm going to do it now." Regardless of whether anyone is currently in that lane or not.

If they would just think, "I need to get in that lane. Oh, there's a car there. I could fit but it would be a jerk thing to do. Oh look, there's plenty of space behind that car. I'll wait until they pass me." Traffic would be so much better.

This isn't a complaint. It's actually a compliment and a big thank you to the Oklahoma County Sherriff's Deputy who gave me a big break this morning. I normally watch my speed driving to work in the morning, but this morning around 5:15, I was running well over the speed limit on SB Western from NW 164th when he came up and paced beside me to slow me down, and then went on his way. He very well could have written me a fat ticket. If you read this sir, Thank You for shaking me loose in this manner. Sometimes embarrassment is the best way to get ones attention. If you see me again, I will be minding my manners..

I don't know that I come across people who make it their life goal to be an a-hole on the road. I come across people who are a-holes because they are oblivious to other people on the road. They only think about themselves and what their need is. I could be reading them all wrong though. It just seems to me that the people I come across don't say, "Hey, I'm gonna cut this guy off to be a jerk or just because I can." No, it seems to be more a case of, "I need to change lanes. I'm going to do it now." Regardless of whether anyone is currently in that lane or not.

If they would just think, "I need to get in that lane. Oh, there's a car there. I could fit but it would be a jerk thing to do. Oh look, there's plenty of space behind that car. I'll wait until they pass me." Traffic would be so much better.

Probably most of the people are clueless instead of assholes. And I give those people a pass if they genuinely make a mistake. We all make honest errors in driving from time to time. However, I have on quite a few occasions dealt with people who absolutely just want to be nasty. It's like they're trying to "win" or something.

Another one of my sore points is the centipede turn. They know that the yellow left turn light is about to go red so the cars bunch up and try and fool you into thinking they are one long segmented vehicle while they run a red light.

I hate the ones who always think they are on a Nascar track and always have to be "first". They drive nice and slow until you try to pass them and then they speed up because how dare you try to pass them.

I hate the ones who always think they are on a Nascar track and always have to be "first". They drive nice and slow until you try to pass them and then they speed up because how dare you try to pass them.

It really freaks those people out when you follow them for 15 miles after they do that.

When I drove my Geo Metro (wish I'd hung on to it) many drivers of "big" pickups simply could not handle me passing them. Probably some adequacy problems.

This has been driving me nuts, can we fix the spelling on the title of this thread please!

I agree.

It makes me think of the movie "Idiocracy."

... Yet traffic was stop and go for miles. But when we passed that vehicle, the speed
of traffic picked up and we were going at least the speed limit if not faster. People
were obviously slowing down to rubber neck. It wasn't out of concern for safety. I just
can't understand this.
It's senseless and very rude to rubber neck. It shows a lack of concern for others.

In younger days, when 'can I beat my last time on this trip' was considered an important point in my life, it was nice on occasion to have someone pass me. You would nod, ease up just a bit, and once they were a 1/4 mile or so ahead, simply match to their speed and enjoy the added protection of keeping/increasing your speed and smiling because someone else wanted to take point for you, a total stranger.