how long does it take for a post to show up?

Wish I knew. Also, some of my posts show up instantly, while others never show up. And, the posts that never show up are not rude or inappropriate in any way.

Another thing, my avitar is gone. Why? Naomi Campbell just too sexy for the forum? :)

I don't get it.

in order to prevent spam and trolls, the first five posts of every new user remain hidden until approved by a moderator. we try to check for moderated posts regularly but sometimes we can get backlogged by about a day. the timestamp of the post isn't when it's approved but when it was originally sent, so moderated posts sometimes get inadvertantly buried.

can't think of any posts that were actively refused for either of you... but given your post counts, your posts should now be showing up immediately.

as for removing avatars... i don't believe we removed any recently. try adding it back.

-M

Wow such a fast responce. THANK YOU mmm ! Totally makes sense about the avoidance of spam. I'll check my avitar settings again and try and upload a new one.