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Jay
02-18-2005, 06:15 AM
Does anybody here remember Molly Murphy's House of Fine Repute? On the inside of the Business Section of today's Oklahoman there is an article about the death of the owner.

The article mentions the fall of the Molly's was blamed on a dispute with KFOR-TV.


I really miss this place because it was a birthday tradition for all of my family. I liked the idea that they spared nobody when it came to harassment and pure embarrassment.

I remember the servers leading customers around the place chanting "He's got to go to the bathroom." and if you managed to get past the servers and make to the restroom as soon as you walked out you would here." Ladies and Gentleman we have a sneaker let's give them a round of applause". The servers were just down right hilarious and made Molly's a great place to eat.


Who could forget the1968 Jaguar salad bar. I remember when they played the old disco song "Car Wash", everyone was invited to do the car wash dance around the salad bar. This is one of those places that I will never forget. I wish it was still in business.

mranderson
02-18-2005, 06:29 AM
In the mid eighties, a group of friends said they wanted to take me to a Gentleman's club for my birthday. I never go to them anymore after witnessing a homicide in the parking lot of one. So they decided to take me to Molly Murphy's.

One of them had arrainged a special event with one of the waitresses. A lap dance. Clean, of course. I was totally surprised. I later learned the waitress was the sister of one of my friends. She had seen me and wanted to meet me. After that night, she and I dated for two years... Until I was forced by the economy to move to Dallas.

What a birthday. What a lasting gift.

:congrats:

okcpulse
02-18-2005, 09:31 AM
There is a feature article about Molly Murphy's in the Oklahoma Gazette. Unfortunately, the article was printed some six months ago. If anyone would like to read the article, try contacting the Oklahoma Gazette and ask them to pull up a copy in the archives... if they keep the copies of course.

Proactive Volunteer
02-18-2005, 11:12 AM
Do you remember the California Grapes singing "Heard It Through The Grapevine" wearing extra large green Glad trash bags and white gloves?

mranderson
02-18-2005, 11:26 AM
Do you remember the California Grapes singing "Heard It Through The Grapevine" wearing extra large green Glad trash bags and white gloves?

Not at Molly Murphy's.

Jay
02-18-2005, 12:48 PM
http://www.newsok.com/article/1426791/?template=business/main


Above is the link to the article I mentioned........... I don't remember the california rasins; however, I do remember the new Temptations thing they would do. They would pick volunteers from the audience in the lounge area. Then they would lipsync a Temptations song.

Keith
02-18-2005, 06:44 PM
Yes, I remember Molly Murphy's too. When my wife and I went to celebrate an anniversary, we were met at the door by a pirate. We went inside and was directed to a booth....which was real close to the Jaguar...er...I mean salad bar. We had a moose as a waiter, and it was real comical to watch all of these characters walk around.

Like oklacity75 said, it was a place to have fun and get embarrassed. It seemed there was always a "potty train" going through the restaurant.

My wife and I were sitting in the booth, when the moose stuck his head into our booth, literally. He almost couldn't get his head out.:LolLolLol

I do remember some kind of controversy with KFOR TV, but I can't remember what it was. Whatever is was, it had such a big impact, that they had to close the restaurant.

It's sad to hear that the owner died. I sure have missed that restaurant.

floater
02-18-2005, 11:08 PM
I heard their fried peaches were gooooooood.

Patrick
02-19-2005, 01:27 AM
I thought I'd go ahead and post the article here. Unfortunately, the Oklahoman sometimes removes their articles from their database. This way we can refer back to it:
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"Ex-employees, fans of Molly Murphy's mourn late owner
By Tricia Pemberton
Business Writer

Longtime Oklahoma City restaurateur Robert L. "Bob" Tayar died Sunday after a car accident near his home in La Quinta, Calif.
Tayar, 72, was president of Bob Tayar Enterprises and owned and operated many restaurants in Oklahoma. Tayar's best known enterprise was perhaps Molly Murphy's House of Fine Repute on S Meridian in Oklahoma City. He ran the restaurant for 20 years.

Molly Murphy's was known for dressing its wait staff in costumes and encouraging them to insult and embarrass customers.

Tayar's career in Oklahoma ended after an incident involving KFOR-TV Channel 4. The channel accused Tayar of assaulting a reporter and cameraman and videotaped his arrest by Oklahoma City police. Tayar then filed a lawsuit against the station.

Later he sought Chapter 11 bankruptcy protection and closed Molly Murphy's, blaming the restaurant's demise on the television station's broadcast. In 2001, an Oklahoma City jury found KFOR-TV guilty of defamation against Tayar and awarded him $700,000.

After Molly Murphy's closed in 1996, Tayar moved to the Palm Springs area of California.

Oklahoma City resident Craig Alleman, 42, worked at Molly Murphy's in the '80s and said many of the former staff members are planning a reunion in the summer.

"That was probably the best job I've ever had," Alleman said. "I got to dress up as Bullwinkle Moose. I got to insult people and I got paid to do it. Where else could that happen?"

Alleman said the restaurant boomed at the same time oil was flowing freely through Oklahoma's economy. He said the restaurant was mentioned in Playboy magazine and for a while drew a national crowd.

The now-programmer for Mercury Insurance Group said he learned of Tayar's death through an e-mail Thursday afternoon.

"Say what you will about Bob, but he did bring us all together. I've got nothing by fond memories of Bob and that restaurant," Alleman said.

Alleman is in the process of setting up a Web site for former Molly Murphy's employees -- mollymurphys.com. "

xrayman
02-19-2005, 06:19 PM
Good memories of Molly Murphy's! Had a surprise birthday party there once and no way could that night ever be forgotten. Great fun. So many restaurants I think of on occasion. In the heyday of 39th street there were some good ones that won't be forgotten. Ann's Chicken Fry, if you haven't been in a while, is a city treasure. It's as much a museum as it is a restaurant.

Patrick
02-19-2005, 10:29 PM
I was just a kid when I went, but here are some memories I had. It was quite a wild place. You definitely didn't want to ask someone where the bathroom was....the waiters would make a big announcement that you had to go poddy. Or with birthdays they'd make everything into a big production. You definitely didn't want to go if you were afraid of being the center of attention. Molly Murphy's had character. I don't think there's anything quite like it in OKC today.

Oh I forgot, didn't they have a Jaguar under their salad bar? Something like that.

Cool place.

Proactive Volunteer
02-22-2005, 09:42 AM
At my mother's 65 birthday, she, my brother and I all were at the bar dressed with three waitresses in big green trash bags and white gloves dancing to Heard It On The Grapevine..making fools of ourselves.

It was definitely Molly Murphy's as we visited there about 4 or 5 times a year. It was so embarrassing that I have been scared for life with the memory!
HA!!

robinplace
04-10-2006, 12:23 PM
Well, speaking of Molly Murphy's, we are looking for all ex-employees for a huge reunion in September, 2006. Please let me know if you know of anyone that worked at Molly's so that I can get the information to them. We are hoping for a big turnout and look forward to seeing each other again. For some of us, it's been 20 years since we worked there. Your help will certainly be appreciated!

Pete
04-10-2006, 12:58 PM
For those who haven't seen this, there is an entire website devoted to Molly's nostalgia:

http://hometown.aol.com/stoneforst/stonemain/mollys.htm

Proactive Volunteer
04-10-2006, 04:09 PM
Thanks for posting this link! There has been a lot of time put into this site.

THANKS:tweeted:

jbrown84
04-10-2006, 04:50 PM
I was under the impression that Molly Murphy's was in the building that housed Johnnie's on NW Expressway until recently.

Where on S. Meridian was it?

Pete
04-10-2006, 05:03 PM
It was just south of Sheplers on the same side of the street, between The Kettle and Wendys.

Not sure what is there now as the building has been torn down.

namellac
07-26-2006, 05:58 PM
Well were having a reunion of all former Molly Murphy's employees Saturday Sept. 9th. And to make our reunion feel a little more "Homey" we're looking for any pieces-parts-dead cats that will make the event a little more special.

I've been told that someone out there purchased some of the booths from Molly's and has them hidden in a storage facility someplace. If only the infamous "Table 13" could talk!

If anybody knows of anything that they have and might be willing to "loan" the item for the event. Please let me know by email at reunion @ mollymurphys . com

Also, if you know of somebody who was a "Character" at Molly's during its 20 year history, please let them know about the reunion by sending them to:

http://www.mollymurphys.com


Thanks,

Craig Alleman
aka Bullwinkle Moose (Molly Murphy's 1982-1984)


p.s. There is an imposter in Medford, Oregon! Somebody has opened a Molly's there!

brianinok
05-01-2008, 07:01 PM
Here is an article from Steve Lackmeyer on Molly Murphy's. I sure would be excited if they reopened.

Fond memories keep restaurant a legacy | NewsOK.com (http://newsok.com/fond-memories-keep-restaurant-a-legacy/article/3236737/?tm=1209557251)

Wed April 30, 2008
Fond memories keep restaurant a legacy

Would today's youngsters enjoy dancing around a "salad car” to the tune of "Car Wash” along with Tarzan, Hagar, Minnie Mouse, Wonder Woman and Bullwinkle? The Molly Murphy's legend certainly lives on in the hearts of former employees and customers.

http://static.newsok.biz/article/20080430/3236737/molly.jpg_04-30-2008_1Q7B360.jpg

By Steve Lackmeyer
The Oklahoman

I have an agenda as I write this. I'm breaking the rules. I have an opinion. And I'm about as biased as it gets.

Yep, I'm prepared to break every professional rule there is by declaring a love for Molly Murphy's House of Fine Repute. And even though it's been gone for 11 years, I'm not ready to let go. And I don't think I'm alone either.

A wonderful new tell-all book about the restaurant's rise to national fame — and its demise at the hands of a reckless local television news crew — is now out, authored by Jeffiee Tayar, widow of the restaurant's founder, Bob Tayar.

"Whatever Happened to Molly Murphy's House of Fine Repute” is a book that brings back fond memories — for me, it was the site of my second date with my future wife.

For those who never enjoyed the restaurant — a local hot spot for 20 years — it was unlike anything around today. All of the staff dressed in the craziest outfits, acting bizarre, dancing around a salad bar built into an old Jaguar. It was a bit naughty, but not so much that you couldn't take the entire family. You just never dared to ask directions to the rest room.

The restaurant took pride in quoting a description from Playboy — that the building itself was a cross between a Russian Orthodox Church and a ranch house.

If you're not convinced that Molly's wasn't a special landmark, just visit Molly Murphy's Website of Fine Repute (http://www.mollymurphys.com) and watch the commercials and read the comments left by dozens of former employees and patrons. And if you're like me, you'll realize ... Molly is still alive ... she just needs a new home and some TLC.

Molly Murphy's will always be the legacy and vision of Bob Tayar, but it was the staff that kept that dream alive. And sure enough, some of them showed up in their old costumes back in December at Jeffiee Tayar's book signing at Full Circle Books at 50 Penn Place.

Visiting the Web site, I noticed a poll as to where fans would love to see the restaurant reopen. Of 748 votes cast, 41 percent chose Bricktown.

Bricktown, of course, would be thrilled to have such an attraction. The folks in Automobile Alley, MidTown and the Arts District would do flips for it as well. So what's holding back a return of this institution — one that would have a built-in customer base ready to once again enjoy a dance around the salad bar?

I asked Jeffiee Tayar this very question while she signed my book (also signing – Hagar, Bullwinkle and Larry of Arabia). There is a chance she'll allow it — but only if it is overseen by the restaurant's original manager, Hank Craft.

Well now, isn't that interesting? Hank Craft, it turns out, is with the Hal Smith Restaurant Group, which owns and operates some of the city's most popular eateries including Charlestons and Boomerang Grill.

So let's get something going. E-mail me with your own memories, and let me know if you too would embrace Molly's return.

metro
05-01-2008, 10:38 PM
That would be good, I agree Bricktown or downtown would be the place to put a destination like this, the old quasi I-40 location wouldn't be good for today's destination point. They would get TONS of business in Bricktown or downtown from conventioners and tourists alone, let alone old regulars.

foodiefan
05-01-2008, 11:11 PM
Oh Yeah!! Took some NYC relatives there in the late 70's. They LOVED it!! Has all the makings of a "Hard Rock" cult!!

CuatrodeMayo
05-01-2008, 11:24 PM
Count me in!

I am a young'un and never had the chance to go. My parents have shared with me their fond memories of the place and I wish I could still go.

If you need creative and outlandish ideas, I'm your man. Where do I sign?

Oh GAWD the Smell!
05-02-2008, 03:17 AM
People's skin is too thin for that place these days.

But I loved that joint.

Pete
05-02-2008, 08:41 AM
Molly's run coincided with my own adolescence and young adulthood and I was there many times - even before my prom if you can believe it. Also had two good friends that worked there for quite a while.

As much as it was a part of 1970's OKC scene (and a good part of the 80's, too) it had simply run it's course as did the many similar themed restaurants of that era.

And BTW, I believe the concept and execution (right down to the menu and salad car) were lifted from The Magic Time Machine in the Dallas area, which is still operating. Perhaps Molly's came first, but I don't think so:

http://magictimemachine.com/Albums/Album2/Large/redcar.jpg

kevinpate
05-02-2008, 09:41 AM
If the Rolling Stones can endure, why not Molly's. I'm in, and I have no fear of asking for catsup or where the potty is if the place is deemed too quiet for my tastes. Back in the day, I greatly enjoyed the Molly's in Tulsa and would welcome yet another chorus of everything old is new again

EvokeCoffee
05-02-2008, 09:49 AM
Funny this thread started when it did - I was just over in Molly's old part of town the other day an began thinking back to it. While I was young when it was around, I always thought it was the most fascinating, interesting, frightening (for a young kid) and great places in OKC.

Great times and would love to have it around again.

kevinpate
05-02-2008, 09:56 AM
My eldest is now older than I was when I first enjoyed Molly's in Tulsa. Come to think on it, so is my second child.

The more I think on this today, I'm convinced .... they need the Molly's experience too!

namellac
05-02-2008, 12:32 PM
Someone in Medford, Oregon tried opening a Molly Murphy's there. It didn't last more than 2 years. From what I heard, it didn't have quite the atmosphere as our beloved Molly's had. As the Web Admin for Molly Murphy's Website of Fine Repute (http://www.mollymurphys.com), the number one question I get asked is "When is it going to re-open?"

I think it could be successful as "Everything old is new again". I know a contingent of former "Molly's Kids" would love to help train a wait staff, and even make "guest appearances" to make sure that the restaurant had the prominence it once had.

sideporch
05-02-2008, 01:02 PM
As a former OKC Molly's employee, I think the public needs to have Molly's reopened.
I agree with the poster who said "the public it too thin skinned" for such an experience today.
Goodness knows, I remember those diners who didn't appreciate everything I did in an attempt to give them a good time.
But, even so. I think the majority of people who would come out, would enjoy getting away from the politically correct world we are forced to face everyday.
There's nothing like a Molly Murphy's experience.

Chefdavies
05-02-2008, 04:06 PM
I remember going to this place and winning a dance competition or something. But maybe I just won bc it was my birthday, anywho it was alot of fun!!!

Oh GAWD the Smell!
05-02-2008, 04:56 PM
Molly's run coincided with my own adolescence and young adulthood and I was there many times - even before my prom if you can believe it. Also had two good friends that worked there for quite a while.

As much as it was a part of 1970's OKC scene (and a good part of the 80's, too) it had simply run it's course as did the many similar themed restaurants of that era.

And BTW, I believe the concept and execution (right down to the menu and salad car) were lifted from The Magic Time Machine in the Dallas area, which is still operating. Perhaps Molly's came first, but I don't think so:

http://magictimemachine.com/Albums/Album2/Large/redcar.jpg

I've been to the Time Machine twice, and it can't hold a candle to the mayhem that was Molly Murphy's.


I remember going to this place and winning a dance competition or something. But maybe I just won bc it was my birthday, anywho it was alot of fun!!!

I won a vegetable war once, by dropping a green bean down a woman's dress from 30 feet....NOTHING BUT NET...ER...BOOB!

Hey...She started it with the roll.

sgt. pepper
05-02-2008, 05:17 PM
I always thought Mollys was exclusive in OKC, they had one in Tulsa, or still have one in Tulsa? Were they nation a wide chain? i'm going to be disappointed if they were a nation wide chain. i never been to it, but have of course always heard about it. If they open back up, i would try it out. Bricktown would be perfect for it nowadays IMO.

namellac
05-02-2008, 06:54 PM
The original was in OKC. The second one opened in Tulsa, and was only open for a number of years. YES it is an Oklahoma Original.

BabyBoomerSooner
05-03-2008, 08:13 PM
Does anyone remember the reason for the restaurant's closing? Seems there was a rumor about a "ghost" living in the attic and it turned out to be some homeless guy. Channel 4 did an expose' on it and there was a shoving match between reporter and owner. It closed shortly thereafter.

I might have my facts all screwed up. That's how I remember it going down. Can anyone confirm my recollections?

Baby Boomer Sooner

namellac
05-04-2008, 01:05 AM
Not quite that romantic, but it was because the restaurant wasn't honoring a coupon, and it was Channel 4 that showed up. Both the owner of the restaurant and the reporter have passed on.

bornhere
05-11-2008, 11:05 AM
J Tayar blames that Ch 4 story for MM's demise, but I think Pete is right when he says the concept had simply run its course.

kevinpate
05-11-2008, 03:00 PM
nah, good fun never goes out of style, or shouldn't
;^)

brianinok
05-19-2008, 07:46 PM
I don't think it had so much run it's course is that it was in the wrong part of town. Back when it was built, I-40 & Meridian seemed to be the place all the restaurants were locating. If it were along Memorial or in Bricktown (or downtown area) today, it would be thriving. I think business had decreased from the time of the oil bust, it was no longer in the "thought about location" for dinner, then the Channel 4 thing did it in.

kmf563
05-21-2008, 11:41 AM
I was still working at Molly's when the closing happened. My oh my the stories I could tell of that place.
They would not honor a coupon is what brought the news out to the restaurant, but it is not what killed business. It was a legitimate excuse for them to go under. There were many many problems with that place and the family running it. But it was a wonderful idea and a great money maker. Under the right people - maybe at Lake Hefner, it would do really well. People traveled from all over this country just to eat there. I met several celebrities there. And am still friends with a lot of the cast of characters. Some of them are still as annoying as they were then.

SoonerQueen
06-15-2008, 10:41 PM
I'd love to eat there. I never got to go there when they were open.

okclee
01-20-2009, 05:42 PM
Molly Murphy's Website of Fine Repute (http://www.mollymurphys.com/)


Will we ever see a Bricktown Molly Murphy's ??

All of the discussion about America's Pub, and people wanting something more unique to Bricktown, got me to thinking about earlier threads about Molly Murphy's.

Matt
01-20-2009, 05:47 PM
I think that thread title needs a question mark.

okclee
01-20-2009, 06:53 PM
You are right it does need a question mark. If the mods could please fix that for me.

OKCitizen
01-21-2009, 08:46 AM
Ahh. Molly Murphy's! Great memories of that place. I recall making the mistake of asking my server (a guy dressed like a pirate) where the bathroom was located. Wow, talk about embarrassing as I was paraded to the bathroom with taunts and cheers. LOL! As for the bathroom ... well, the wallpaper was something any man would appreciate.

Yes, bring back Molly Murphy's and don't change a thing!

okclee
01-21-2009, 11:18 AM
Bricktown is the perfect location for the Molly Murphy's rebirth. Their website has a poll question in regards to a new Molly Murphy's, there are quite a few votes already.

Place them right on the canal level where the water taxi's can go by and I could see the waiters / entertainers outside interacting with the people passing by. If done right there would be a seating reservation list for months in advance. Not to mention giving Bricktown that one of a kind type of place that keeps people coming back for more.

CuatrodeMayo
01-21-2009, 11:31 AM
I like the idea, but I fear folks are too thin-skinned nowadays and would be highly offended at some the shenanigans pulled there.

okclee
01-21-2009, 11:58 AM
Aren't the dueling piano places a little on the same kind of entertainment? I have been to one before and the pianist's were all into pulling people out of the crowd and humiliating them. It still works if done right, just like it worked at Molly Murphy's.

I would also like to see the new Bricktown version of MM's have a large bar with the bartenders getting in on the act too. Even people sitting at the bar would be fair game.

AFCM
01-21-2009, 07:14 PM
Molly Murphy's would make a killing in Bricktown, especially with the NBA fever catapulting business even further in the district. Molly Murphy's is distinctly OKC and I really hope they reopen somewhere on the canal. I know they would have no problem attracting investors and seeing a poll on the MM website gives me hope that such a thing is being considered.

bluedogok
01-21-2009, 08:56 PM
Molly Murphy's is distinctly OKC...
Not really, it was another Bob Tayer copy of concept that others developed, like most of his restaurants were. It was a copy of The Magic Time Machine (http://magictimemachine.com/) that still has locations in Dallas and San Antonio, the Austin location was closed about the time that I moved down here. I used to work with the architect in OKC who did most of the Tayer restaurants and he said they made many trips down here to get the concept copied.

I do think something similar would probably work in Bricktown.

AFCM
01-21-2009, 09:59 PM
Not really, it was another Bob Tayer copy of concept that others developed, like most of his restaurants were. It was a copy of The Magic Time Machine (http://magictimemachine.com/) that still has locations in Dallas and San Antonio, the Austin location was closed about the time that I moved down here. I used to work with the architect in OKC who did most of the Tayer restaurants and he said they made many trips down here to get the concept copied.

I do think something similar would probably work in Bricktown.

I understand the concept and even design may be similar to others in different cities, but Molly Murphy's was Oklahoma City-based and existed only within the borders of the Sooner State. By "distinctly OKC", I'm referring to a business that is synonymous with Oklahoma City, unlike the chain establishments we typically see in Bricktown.

I apologize for any misconceptions. Due to its likelihood of being inferred in many ways, "distinctly OKC" may have been a poor choice of words on my behalf.

bluedogok
01-21-2009, 10:32 PM
I agree that the "name" was distinctly OKC. It's just that most restaurant concepts are a copy of something somewhere else and back then we may not have been exposed to them elsewhere like we can be now. I have known people who even in recent years thought it was a concept that originated in OKC and admit that back then I did as well since I had never seen the others in Dallas, Austin or San Antonio. It wasn't until the former co-worker and I were discussing "clients" that he told me about those projects that he did for Tayer. He had some interesting stories about him as a client.

jbrown84
01-23-2009, 10:30 AM
What else did Tayer have?

bluedogok
01-23-2009, 11:00 AM
One was TaMolly's Mexican Food, now the Johnnie's on NW Expressway. It had a clay tile roof at one point, the roofer repossessed it after Tayer didn't pay him.

jbrown84
01-23-2009, 01:53 PM
And what was that a ripoff of?

Jesseda
01-23-2009, 02:24 PM
so is molly murphys thinking of opening up again?

bluedogok
01-23-2009, 04:46 PM
And what was that a ripoff of?
It was just a mix of different Dallas Tex-Mex places, not any one particular place. I've been trying to remember some of the others but I keep thinking of Val Gene places.

rondvu
01-23-2009, 08:15 PM
When I was training in Texas we would often go to the Pappas restaraunts. Not from Oklahoma, but very tasty and easy on the wallet. Pappadeaux Seafood Kitchen - The Pappas Family (http://www.pappadeaux.com/pappasfamily.htm)

kevinpate
01-24-2009, 09:29 AM
I'd go to MM's if the concept reappeared here. I used to make trips to Tulsa specifically for dinner at MM in Tulsa when I lived in SEOK. Fun, not expensive, it's own lil comedy dinner theater when you got right down to it,plus nice drive each way for ample visit time rather than sitting in near silence at a movie.

metro
01-26-2009, 09:20 AM
so is molly murphys thinking of opening up again?

Wishful thinking mainly from this board.

capt_john_97
07-07-2011, 07:33 AM
Molly Murphy's was an oklahoma icon. It was such an amazing place and I had the honor of working there for several years. I have talked to so many people and they all say that they used to go there and had the most fun and how there needs to be another one.

My thought for today is what is/was your favorite Molly Murphy's memory?